Apart from shooting myself, is there any cure from absolute grief?!
Question: I'm looking for reasoned answers here, not from r&s people.
I'm losing control of my perception of reality. What is the point of stuggling on through a debiliating illness and grief when the easy solution is out?
Answers: I'm looking for reasoned answers here, not from r&s people.
I'm losing control of my perception of reality. What is the point of stuggling on through a debiliating illness and grief when the easy solution is out?
Go to a doctor.
Do not let this get anymore out of hand than it already has.
Do not look at the internet for help anymore.
Go to a real certified doctor.
I know it sounds lame and doean't help....but the only real help is time!!!
I am so sorry you feel that way.I send a hug...
get high, smoke, something that changes your mind for a while
The only true soulution is GOD . He helped me out of it :)
well, depend if you have money or not... if you have money , you can help some peoples having a better life .
and if you're in pain, get on morphine and dream it away...
you don't seem to be so debilitated to me !
you should go to a doctor and the reason is life is fun? i dont know i struggle to go through out the day i cant really even give my self a good reason to live. but i do know i dont want to kill myself. anymore at least
Im sorry :( It may look like the easiest solution is out for you, but it complicates things for the people you leave behind. The people who care for you will be feeling the same way you do now, only worse.. because theyll all feel guilt on top of it, "If I had only done this, he might not have offed himself'.
Very true. Catch you on the other side.
faith in God, belief, someone to look up to. faith will make you stronger within and help you cope better. its said that ppl wh believe in something live longer. hopefully it should get better. are you on medication? drink lots of water and dilutred juices. take care.
How about trying to enjoy the good things in life. Enjoy the sunset, your relationships with other people, a good book, an engaging tv series, do something nice for someone worse off than you, etc. There are plenty of interesting things in life that are enjoyable if you go out and pursue them. That's got to be more enjoyable than focusing on your troubles.
Go to a psychiatrist and they will put you on some kind of medication and turn to Jesus as well
Do you have friends or other people like you who have the same illness? Sometimes it would help to talk it over with others and get a support group together if u dont know of any yet.
Go on meetup.com. I think you can start free groups or get togethers there where you could meet up with others or friends and relatives who are going through something similar yours.
Kind regards.
Based on that title, I was going to tell you "time and distraction." But if you've got a serious illness on top of it, that would make it so much harder. Will you illness improve? If yes, then there *is* a light at the end of the tunnel even if you don't feel as though there is. If not, you still need to consider the people who will be hurt if you decide to "escape" early. . . . Also, just because you are ill and grieving doesn't mean you don't still have something to offer the world.
wait--- time is a great healer----do some meditation---deep breathing exercises-----and pranayam etc. this will change your negative thoughts---rember the world is as you think
man. i agree. the world is messed up.. we are only human why can't people just act like them... and we jus feel that the whole world is on our shoulders..... it's chill tho man i understand somtimes i feel like that too.. honestly i don't know anymore but your not alone..
I agree with Christy B the only real way out of this is to hit your knees and give it all to God. He will see you through it and the end result will be a happier healthier life.
Family, Friends.What it really amounts to comes from within.
Support groups,seeing if you can do things you would like to do.In stead of giving up make it a challenge.There is always solutions.
The problem is that we don't know for sure what happens when we die. If you think that no life is better than the life you have now then maybe you should consider that option.
Personally, I don't believe in any "after-life" so (easy for me to say when I'm not suffering at all) to me any life is better than no life at all.
Life is NOT about easy solutions. Do you ever recall someone saying life is easy, life is fair???
NO. Its all about struggles and hardships and overcoming obstacles and so forth.
... the simple answer is life.
Here is a list of things I live for.
Great food
Mountains
Friends
Snow covered trees
The smell of baking bread
My wife
Smiles
Great books
My cats
Fresh air
Sunsets
...sending you healing thoughts my friend.
Reality is what you make of it. It is not someone else's reality, but your own. If that is something that cannot be grasped and you are suffering from a condition which cannot possibly be cured or treated effectively, then I am a strong believer in euthanasia. There are better ways to dealing with your final arrangements than a bullet. It is messy and no one wants to clean up after you. I am sorry life has dealt you a raw deal. I really am. Things are better on the other side. I've seen it.
if you religious pray to god and if not get a good shrink or both
go to a phycaratrist (i don't really know how to spell it. or just a councelor of some sort...
It helps me a lot to just talk to a really close friend, someone who won't judge much.
Or just scribbling on a paper,
or screaming in a pillow.
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hope you feel better
or screaming at someone makes me feel better,
but then they get kinda mad at you,
so maybe that's not the best way
lmao
get out of the same old surroundings, thats what helped me, go on holiday or somethink cheap were you can stay away the longest.
congratulations of being top contributor, you must have helped a lot of people.
I lost control of reality years ago. It's much easier this way, just let go, say goodbye to reality. Live in your own little world, the hell with everyone else. If that doesn't work for you, then yeah, pull the trigger.
Remember that someone out there has it worse and it continuing to fight. Tell yourself that you are at least as good as that person so you can make it through this. I have a chronic disease and am in alot of pain. I can no longer eat much solid food and will have to have some of my intestines removed in the next couple of months. But I know that somewhere someone is living with ALOT worse. Thats how I keep going. Of course a joint helps every now and again.
don't think that way there is aways a way out ever think of talking to the lord. there is a reason for it give the lord jesus
a way to help you.get out of what ever you think is so hard
your life touches so many other people think of them. there is always love around be save.
ok ok just sit back relax F*** everything off in your mind thats getting you in this state and just take a breather
only was this is going to go away is when you have mourned it out of your mind and start to feel like you can get back on track, i no its hard iv had a rough last 2 years myself and you just have to take it as it is and deal with it how best you can
hope i helped hugs xxx