What should I do if my roommate is a big bully?!


Question: Last week he called me names such as fat autistic clumsy ugly and nerdy because I did not allow him to use my computer for one minute to submit a assignment because I dont like people using my computer for privacy reasons. I got so angry that I attacked him and he had me in a headlock and kept punching me in my back, neck, and head until I had bit one of his fingers and ran back to my bedroom. I told him today that I filed a complaint to get housing to request that he be moved to another dorm and that I wont give him donuts anymore for what he did to me and he hit me across the head with my stapled complaint. He then went in our fridge and dumped my all my donuts in the trash which I bought by the bakery for $15 yesterday . Everyday since we had the fight he has kept calling me these names too tear down my self esteem and to be mean to me like kids was from elemntary - high school. What should I do to deal with this big muscular bully?

Answers: Last week he called me names such as fat autistic clumsy ugly and nerdy because I did not allow him to use my computer for one minute to submit a assignment because I dont like people using my computer for privacy reasons. I got so angry that I attacked him and he had me in a headlock and kept punching me in my back, neck, and head until I had bit one of his fingers and ran back to my bedroom. I told him today that I filed a complaint to get housing to request that he be moved to another dorm and that I wont give him donuts anymore for what he did to me and he hit me across the head with my stapled complaint. He then went in our fridge and dumped my all my donuts in the trash which I bought by the bakery for $15 yesterday . Everyday since we had the fight he has kept calling me these names too tear down my self esteem and to be mean to me like kids was from elemntary - high school. What should I do to deal with this big muscular bully?
move away
sounds like there's some sexual tension between you and your roommate.
you guys should just "get down to business" and get it over with.
you'll feel alot better once you "get it off" your chest...
sex relieves everything. Report It

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    • Bully him back and kick him to the curb!
    well i think u should have been nicer and let him use your computer quickly-

    2nd of all , you should call the cops the next time he touches you. Because if you are autistic he is taking advantage of you , he shouldnt be abusing you if he has an advantage over you

    try talking things out with him. if not then tell him , well im sorry that we cant be mature adults about this cause at first u seemed like a nice guy. that would tear down his self esteem
    put chillie in his pillow
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    Don't let him win!!!Act like the things that he is doing dont bother you and he will stop,i promis.I was in the exact same situation less than a year ago and i did this and she stoped.You just have to be the bigger person,and let him see that your above that.I promis you it will work!Good luck!
    if he is attacking you and he is a bigger more muscular bloke,
    go for the weak points on a mans body
    such as
    a)groin (punch, kick, knee, elbow) deppending on the position your in
    b)eyes (poke, jab, push)

    im sure there are a hundred more BUT
    these are only to be used so u have enough time to get away and call the police or some one who can help.
    or even just to get out of the situation
    Put glass in his water.


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