I cant cry!... Why?!
Question: I just cant cry EVER! Even if i get hurt i just laugh. I just cant let myself cry, its like i dont know how to. My school counselor told me to just cry and let it all out... But i cant!! I have so much to deal with and she said crying would help, but i dont know how. I feel like i want to but never do? Why dont i? Is there something wrong with me?
Answers: I just cant cry EVER! Even if i get hurt i just laugh. I just cant let myself cry, its like i dont know how to. My school counselor told me to just cry and let it all out... But i cant!! I have so much to deal with and she said crying would help, but i dont know how. I feel like i want to but never do? Why dont i? Is there something wrong with me?
Well, it could be mentally or physically. Your tears ducts could physically not work or maybe its just a mental issue. Maybe you were taught never to cry when you were younger and you have just adapted to never crying and never do. or maybe something really bad happened when you were younger and you used up your energy so nothing any more seems worth crying about. you would be thinking all this subcontiously considering you want to cry
Yes.
you probaly just dont have any fellin for no1 but aint nothin wrong wit dat cause my bro like dat
why do you care?
your face gets puffy when you cry?! why would u want tooo?
If there is something wrong with you... I wish I had it. But that seems perfectly normal. When I see someone hurt, I want to run over and comfort them but I panic, but all I can do is laugh hysterically...
I cry atleast once a week which isn't fun sometimes. I'm like overly sensitive.. Which sucks, I wish I didn't cry.
But You sound normal as long as it doesn't affect your relationships.
you shouldn't have to force yourself to cry. we all have our own ways of letting out our emotions. crying is what happens to a lot of people when they let their feelings build up, but that can be released in plenty of other ways. what do you do when you're upset? you might go for a run or just yell a lot. as long as it keeps you from bottling everything up inside, it shouldn't matter how you do it.
if it is really a health issue, you may really be unable to produce tears.
but think about all your problems and imagine the worst to happen and if everyone was against you.
but it always isnt a good thing to be able to cry cause some people just dont know how to control it...
good luck.
Did something traumatic happen to you when you were younger?
One of my friends is like this. Her mom died in a car accident and she didn't cry when she was told, and she hasn't cried since. And it's been like 7 years.
Sometimes when your hurt so badly, crying just stops.
i don't know, like with some ppl, they have been through so much horrible stuff, that when something that most ppl would cry over, they just don't? i don't completely understand y this is but, its just what i see.
Unless you are really upset, I see no reason for you to need to cry.
I used to feel that way. Crying was hard for me and I thought it was just because I was cold hearted but I'm not and there's nothing wrong with you. It's probably just difficult for you to show emotion.