How do you get over someone's death?!


Question: Please tell me it's possible. and that one day I will be okay.. and not be hurt over this...

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Answers: Please tell me it's possible. and that one day I will be okay.. and not be hurt over this...

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It gets easier in time.. but the truth is - you never completely get over the death of anyone you were close to.. you do learn to live with it though.. and it makes you realise life is important.

Ask yourself: would they want me moping around all day for the rest of my life?

Yes absolutely possible. Join a support group and become familiar with the stages of grief. Confide in friends, allow yourself to be taken care of, seek professional help if needed. Acknowledge that you are hurt right now and need proper time and support to heal. Take things slow. Goodluck.

First off, if your really hurting and mourning over this death-do you think this person that passed would've wanted that? They're probably cringing at seeing you in so much pain-so they're hurting!

For me, I've had some family members die-and I'm an extremely passive person, and neither death seemed to ever actually hit me. It's not a form of going into denial, it's just I'm pretty numb to some sorts of death. You can work on just letting things go-(I'm not talking about trying to forget he died, or brush it off)-I'm just saying in certain situations, don't make it that serious. Don't ever find the need to get mad at friends, etc..If you do this, it will benefit you in many ways-and help with this death (in time) and if any other deaths occur. This will train your mental self.

My father died when I was 7 Half of my family abandoned me my mom and my brother. Me and brother haven't gotten along since and my mother is more easily aggrivated. She took a peice of his personality. I have neices and nephews who have no Idea i exist. I am 12 now. And I still cry out of all I've been through because Of one persons death. It's hard- I haven't gotten over it, and I fear i never will....

I am very sorry for your loss. Go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U.S.A.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book). Email jo@samaritans.org Chatrooms and forums: http://www.chatmag.com/topics/health/gri... and http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com/ and http://messageboards.ivillage.com/ Other websites: http://www.griefnet.org/ and http://www.helpguide.org/ and http://www.mental-health-abc.com/ and http://www.boblivingstone.com/?q=node30 and http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk/ Understand that there are often several stages of grief.
The stages are:

Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening."
Anger: "Why ME? It's not fair?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK."
K



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