Why do some people hold grudges and have to be mad at someone all the time?!
Question: Why do some people just let things roll off their back while others sweat the small stuff? If you feel you have to be mad at someone all of the time, do you just need drama in your life because you need to get a life? If you are one of these people that always has to be mad at someone.... please answer my question.
Answers: Why do some people just let things roll off their back while others sweat the small stuff? If you feel you have to be mad at someone all of the time, do you just need drama in your life because you need to get a life? If you are one of these people that always has to be mad at someone.... please answer my question.
Some people find it easier to be mad and avoid the real problem, themselves. I am one of those who does not hold the grudge but moves on. But I know plenty who do not and there is nothing you can do, this is a personality issue.
I could hold grudges all the time, but because of my faith in God and Jesus,...I let it go...people like that, have esteem problems, I feel...and are tired of others persecuting them, I think...so they hold on to it, till it destroys their lives.
Most of the ones I have seen like this usually hate themselves. That is the core reason. I am one that doesn't sweat the small stuff but I lived with a father that wasn't happy unless everyone was as miserable as he was.
Why do people do it? There's no way of knowing unless you know what they have been through or whats in their head. A lot of people hold grudges because they get hurt by someone and can forgive them for what the person had done to them. I have a grudge that is never going away on my moms boyfriend because he beat my mom in my grandparents house. And even though that was about 4 or 5 years ago...I still hate him to this very day just because of that night an d the fact that he's still around doing my mom very wrong. So not everyone holds grudges because they have no life...It is actually because some people actually have very hurtful and traumatic things done to the by certain people. But this is not always the case. Some people do do it just to do it, or the have no life.