I just wish someone could read the jerks mind that used me?!


Question: If you can tell me how fast the hamster is running around in his brain.


Answers: If you can tell me how fast the hamster is running around in his brain.

I did read it, it said that he was a punk and not worthy of you. It says you lucked out by not having him in your life. That's all I could read from his mind, it was very small!

If you want help, I suggest you be a little more specific, cya

Haha gotta love it... I wish just for one day I can read minds... just one day, thats not asking to much. I would love to know how people think of me or how they don't think of me!!

Thats the thing though... U shouldn't say u'll leave ur husband for him or him leave for u... U should leave ur current relationships for YOU and ony YOU not for anyone else!! That pereson can leave u as quick as he met u!!

regardless of he wants you or not which it seems like he doesnt, leave your abusive husband.

first things first leave ur pathetic hubby behind now!... second off i dont recommend cheating with an abusive husband which makes me wonder about the abuse u claim... most abused women dont want to do anything to push the husbands anger and u seem to be quite thrilled on doing so... second off cheating is bad any ways... never get with a man in hopes he will leave his wife... thats a bad move in its self... thrid there is no reason for u to be hung up over a dude like that and u need to seek therapy ... sorry to be so blunt but u seem to be addicted to abuse... u seem to embrace it in any form... whether it be the head games home boy is playin with u or the other abuse u claim with ur husband... to be blunt again i dont feel bad for u at all because u choose to stay with abuse and seem to run into another abuse with open arms... there is no reason to feel bad... leave if the abuse is for real a lawyer will get ur divorce... other wise ull stick with him because somewhere deep inside urself u crave it

Many people say one thing and do another and its definitely hard to know when they are doing it. Try to see the pattern in the guys behavior. Does he start to change after sex or is it after a particular issue that has been brought up, that he might feel uncomfortable about. Also if he is getting messed around or is undecided about his other relationship. This could account for his changing heart too. Though remember that it is not your concern to sort though this man's issues, if he cant get it straight then you cannot change that, only he can. As for your husband, you have a better choice, move on or get professional help, but the new guy is abusing you just as bad as your husband so he is definitely not a good next move. Don't be scared to be alone for a time while you find someone new, if this is the best option for you, then be brave, there are people out there looking for a real adult relationship they just take time to find.

Hey Girl you don't need these kind of men.Start by working at your marriage ,doing something about it either way leave or stay but make a move.
But the kind of jerk he is you should be happy with joy saying GOOD RIDDANCE!

Hey BB, you need to feel better about yourself. If you don't get along with hubby, then ditch him. He sounds like an idiot, but I know it'll be hard seeing as you've been together a long time. The other dude you work with sees this as an op to take advantage of....you know....funsies...just like you. Work on being happy for you....because unless you're happy with yourself, you will find it difficult to be happy with anyone. Get out now and go have some fun....

If you are being abused, then leave. Don't hook up w/another man. Just be on your own to get used to depending on you.
When I answered your other question about being single, I guess I hadn't paid close enough attention to your previous ones regarding the abuse. Sorry about that!
Staying w/someone who doesn't treat you well makes no sense. No matter what, you deserve better. Love yourself enough to get free and enjoy the rest of whatever life has in store for you.

" I asked him if Ileft my husband who abuses me if he would leave his very old gal" You placed conditions on a relationship you were just beginning. You cannot place conditions on newly started relationships. You are trying to plan long-term.

Dating is for what it is.... the sole purpose of getting acquainted long enough to see if you want another date. I do believe in multiple dating as long as you are open about it and do not provide sex haphazardly. That should be reserved for a more committed relationsip. Once you have left your playing field a wider berth, you begin eliminating the guys you find may not meet your relationship standards.

Sex is easy. Making love can be explosive. It is more than just the surrendering of your clothes. It is the surrender of your heart and soul to another who feels equally because you trust them to temporarily hold it for you

"I don't feel bad for me either!!!! " This is a lie. A lie to you. You do feel bad for you because you have wallowed in it and dwelled upon it through many questions.

How do you feel bad? You despise the fact you allowed yourself to be duped by a man with a smoothe talk. It smacked of the current relationship you are in. That relationship was by another smoothe talker, your husband, who convinced you to a marriage you felt you have wasted a valuable 22 years

"I just want someone to be true to me" This is a true statement. However, you are seeking it in the wrong people. It is YOU that needs to be true to you. You have failed to be true to yourself. You cannot ask others to be true to you when you the very person who should be looking out for, is not true to yourself.

"I don't want abuse" I don't recall one single person specifically asking for abuse. Even BDSM people have a certain level of what would be considered abuse.

"This man treated me like a queen. I thought it was real. He played me" You are expecting someone to be Prince Charming and take you to the white castle. Sadly, the fairy tale story never came true. Start by treating yourself a Queen and don't expect others to do it. This way, you don't get accidentally played. When you treat yourself well, then you are able to see when others are treating you sincerely, with passion, like the Queen your attitude states it should be because you believe in yourself

Anyways, you leave the relationships you are in because you do it for YOU and not because of anybody else. You are placing the reasons to leave in the wrong places. You leave because you discover, the two of you have no chance of working it out and bettering each other lives. If and when you decide to leave, then allow personal me time for growth alone and without distraction of another. This will allow you to better "demand" a mutual TRUSTing, RESPECTful, and COMPROMISing relationship and help avoid repeating past history mistakes

Much prayers





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