So my parents found a house..?!
Question: It's nice, has a pool & is pretty big.
But I still don't wanna move there :/ I dislike the neighborhood & the city in general [Ancaster, gross]. Yet my mom says I have no say in where I live + I'm probably just worried since I suffer from severe depression & anxiety.
:/ I do have a say right? I shouldn't have to live somewhere that will make me miserable. -_-'
Answers: It's nice, has a pool & is pretty big.
But I still don't wanna move there :/ I dislike the neighborhood & the city in general [Ancaster, gross]. Yet my mom says I have no say in where I live + I'm probably just worried since I suffer from severe depression & anxiety.
:/ I do have a say right? I shouldn't have to live somewhere that will make me miserable. -_-'
Unfortunately, at your age, you only have a say if she says you do. It doesn't seem very considerate of her not to ask your opinion, but maybe she has reasons for wanting to move there that trump your reasons for not wanting to.
You probably are extra worried because of your depression and anxiety. I know that makes everything harder for me. I have to scrub the bathtub with Ajax before every single bath I take. :-(
Bear with it and try to keep an open mind. I don't know that neighborhood at all, but perhaps it won't be so bad once you get settled in. At the very least, YOU HAVE A FREAKING POOL! That is so awesome!
Despite the depression, try to focus on the good things about the place. Maybe you can take up some new hobbies there, to try to make yourself happier about it. I don't know what you're into, but maybe you can start painting, or gardening (even in a flower box, if you don't have a place to garden - nurturing plants can actually be very rewarding; sort of like taking care of children that aren't obnoxious).
When you move into the new house, try to think of it as a new opportunity and let yourself explore completely new experiences and possibilities.
And if you don't like it, you won't have TOO much longer to go before you can move out of your parents house.
Try to hang in there.
wow ur lucky i live in australia n it sux like u could never imagine id rather be any were then ere its not all sunny days n a relax life id rather usa any day this place makes me depressed but but wen i speek out pplz just laugh but im serious n they still laugh sometimes the only thing that matters is my ipod music skol sux n life sux walk a km in my shoes n ull find out ;(
I dealt with the same thing, but what can you do? I would just make the most out of it. Make some close friends... our advice/talk is cheap... but I'm sure you will be fine
u do have a say but at dis moment it doesnt rly count coz u haven't rly given it a chance. just give it a go
I think most people in your situation would feel the same- I know I would be worried. I too have suffered from severe chronic depression and anxiety, as well as some other things. Talk to someone about your fears, don't keep them inside!
However, you don't have a say in it. I know it seems unfair, but your parents make the money and have probably worked very hard for a long time to be able to live in a nice house and provide a good enviroment for you!
Try to look at this situation as a positive. Of course it won't be easy, but it may a great oppurunity to find some great friends and make a "fresh start" for yourself in a new area!
Hope this helps, take care :)