Do you think i should kill myself?!
Question: i have had a hard time here i have been pick on all threw school and highschool had a neck injury a hart operation now i am 17 as you will know i have no friends no job because i am to scared todo anything. Should i end my life every one hates me
Answers: i have had a hard time here i have been pick on all threw school and highschool had a neck injury a hart operation now i am 17 as you will know i have no friends no job because i am to scared todo anything. Should i end my life every one hates me
Glen,
4000 years ago, a chinese philospher had only one thing to say about life..."Life is difficult."
I am 48 and have been through many ups and downs and can tell you that life sometimes does not seem worth it, but so many people have suffered only to later find out that it made them into a person who could help others. My gut tells me that you are a special person and that you have people in your life that think you are special and love you.
My son Tyson, who was 21 killed himself 4 months ago. He too could not handle life...he was terrified about how he was going to make it through. Now he is a box of ashes, is this what you really want? I have read that God sends you right back to start again. There are life lessons you need to learn and you have to walk through hell sometimes to get to heaven.
You don't really want to kill yourself, you just want the pain to stop. If you feel this way a lot you may be depressed that could be resolved fairly easily with meds. In either case, if you have a gun or anything you can hurt yourself with, get rid of it. We all have moments when we feel we have had enough and those are the dangerous moments. Don't make it easy to let one of those moments have you make a bad, long term decision...for a temporary problem.
Go visit my son's memorial and get a better idea of what suicide does to those that love you...
www.virtualmemorials.com
Look up: Tyson Alvarez
You have a chance to make it to happier times, if you kill yourself, your life story will be a sad one for all time.
Write me if you need to chat more.
Tonyalvarez2003@yahoo.com
And never underestimate the power of prayer...
I love you. Please don't do this. The teen years are difficult. It will get better. Stick with it. I promise you will be alright.
Anyone who picks on you is a horrible person. You are better than they are. Be strong.
NO, don't kill yourself. Wherever there is a Won't there is a WAY!!!... 1-800 SUICIDE !!! Call someone, they will help you!
I think you were supposed to go through all that pain for a reason... that in the end... those experiences will contribute to ur accomplishments in the future....you've been through all the bad... that part is over with... now don't u want to stick around for the good? You've reached your low point, now the only place you can go from here is up!
im sorry ur life is hard. im sure as an adult it will just get harder...
dont kill urself....
no you shouldnt. you r a prisoner of your own mind and you need help breaking out.
Please don't kill yourself. You are 17 and there is much life to be lived. Don't be scared of living be scared of not living life to the fullest.
Dont kill yourself. Your 17 and at that age you havent even begun to experience life yet. If you give up now then to all those people who act like your worthless, you only succeed in proving that they are right.
A life is really important and people have to learn these things. Killing yourself doesnt fix anything, it makes you a quitter and you'll just be another nobody falling through the cracks. You've got to live and show people that your worth something, that your as important as them. You have to try new things, you cant be scared. Because if you sit there and do nothing, nothing will ever change. You'll always live through bad times if you dont do anything.
Everyone suffers through hardships and you have got to accept some things and keep going, keep fighting no matter what. So i urge you to take a chance and do something with the life you have, because it very precious and the only thing you'll accomplish from killing yourself is hurting your family and the people who actually do care about you. Your in charge of your own life, make it what you want to make it.
Wishing you the best
does it matter what anyone here says to you? It will evidently come down to, do YOU really want to DIE?? Or do you just want the pain to end and dont know any other way out? Do you want "advice"? Or do you just want a "yes" or a "no" from complete strangers? Do you want a friend? An answer? A purpose? A solution? Attention? An open ear and mind? What do YOU really, truly want...? *Just think of every single thing a suicide will include...it might hurt. It may hurt others who love you, Im sure at 17, you havent f*cked up enough to lose EVERYONE....fix what you can.*
No Glen, you should not kill yourself. You are going to get through this - believe me.
Please go and see your local Community Health centre, and ask to get some counselling to deal with all the things that you have had to endure. You might also ask to join in with some social groups, that would help you to make friends.
The best revenge to get on all the people you say that 'hate you', and for all the hardships you have been through, is to become happy and successful in your own right.
You are on this earth to achieve something, and it would be very sad if you left too soon.
Good luck, and hang in there.
wow, can someone say "pity party" ?
your life has sucked ya, but most of our lives suck at some point, and alot of people are in a worse situation than you. You need to take control. Everyone does not hate you. You can get a job, and you can make friends. Life has just started. Sure you might have started a little late, but you've got 60 years to make it amazing.
you were put on this earth for a reason, and the harder growing up has bee, the more valuable you are to others through sharing your experience and knowledge.
You should go to a therapist, and get on some medication to help you overcome these fears, because your fears are based on anything but fear itself, and that's just wrong. Your life has potential, don't waste it by giving up.
you want a friend? email me, and you've got on.
NNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...
we care enough to answer your question...
everyone goes through crappy times...it's all about how u handle things....times change people change...problems will come and problems will go...this is not a dress rehearsal...you have one life on earth and eternal life in heaven...god works through people and has impecable timing...you are responsible for the effort and god is responsible for the results...he will never leave you or stop loving you...taking the life god has gifted you is not fair....not fair to him to you and those who love u....
email me if u want..I'm all ears...
hey everyone here but 1 person has given you a great answer i really dont have anything more to add but kids are cruel i know how it feels but once you moved away from these negative ppl and sourround yourself with positive ppl you will feel better!! just dont kill yourself you will get through this every1 is a fighter!!! including YOU keep your chin up everyone is here for a reaosn if you do feel alone maybe give that numbe a call that the user gave you!!! well if it makes you feel better i like youand im hear for you
Love ya bud!!:)
NO LIFE IS GOOD ,TALK TO SOME ONE YOU TRUST I WILL PRAY FOR YOU ,THINGS GETS BETTER....PEOPLE CAN BE MEAN AT TIMES LET ME KNOW OK....
Of course not, numb nuts....anyone who has the creative capacity to write something like that MUST survive! If Hilary is elected, who will entertain us during our final hours if not people such as yourself! I hope you know I'm only joshin' with you sweetie......by the way.....I love you! Don't do it. You can't. It would really tick the Big Guy off and I really need him in a good mood tomorrow...I'm asking for a raise. Sorry again....I always think a smile solves everything....but sometimes, it's not enough....when not enough.....check out what the LDS Church as to say on the subject....I always do, and I'm still here!
On Suicide (LDS Church):
"Although it is wrong to take one's own life, a person who commits suicide may not be responsible for his or her acts. Only God can judge such a matter. Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has said: "Obviously, we do not know the full circumstances surrounding every suicide. Only the Lord knows all the details, and he it is who will judge our actions here on earth. "When he does judge us, I feel he will take all things into consideration: our genetic and chemical makeup, our mental state, our intellectual capacity, the teachings we have received, the traditions of our fathers, our health, and so forth" ("Suicide: Some Things We Know, and Some We Do Not," Ensign, Oct. 1987, 8)."
No! Why do something that nature will do for you in the end anyways? Sleep on it for a week at least. You can always kill yourself, but you can't always live, as far as we know.
Be strong, high school's almost over for you. You get to move on and you'll most likely never see them ever again. Forgive and forget. And remember, suicide's a selfish thing to do. No matter how many people you think hates you, there are people who loves and cares about you. If you kill yourself, it would devastate them. You'll hurt more people. If you feel like you have no friends who cares about you,then think of your parents and relatives, what would they do or feel. Just don't do it. It's not worth it.
try smokin weed before you do anything before i smoked i had no real friends just people i talk to occasionally but when i started smoking i got a wonderful new outlook on life and met many new people and now i have some good friends that always have my back it improved my quality of life so much
Hi
I'm eighteen and at university, I moved country three years ago, to a place i knew nothing about. I was picked on at school and tried to end my life when I was just 11.
The reason I am saying this is even if you dont think anyone will care, someone will. I felt like crap when i tried to do it but I feel great now.
I have friends because I am friendly, my family likes me for who i am now, and though life still keeps throwing **** at me on occasions, I am happier.
I will get a job that I like, for people that I like and I will do what I like too when I get there. Before I got away from home I felt so cramped, I couldnt do anything I wanted to . The other thing you should know is that generalizing doesn't help anyone. You say everyone hates you then I ask why haven't they already killed you? If they really hated you they would have.
find something you like to do and just keep doing it. It really makes life worth living. Mine was carpentary and this summer I worked for the cineplex odeon and built violins all summer. It was really cool. But to someone else this would have been stupid. You probably have already limited your self by telling yourself that you cant do anything right but thats not true. the more difficult some is the better you feel when you do it right.
I suppose what I am trying to say is that its your outlook on life that determines whether life is happy or sad and when you choose sad, less people want to be around you. If its that your having a hard time then just tell yourself that good times will come and enjoy what you have. Don't end you life things do get better, I am living proof of that.
no, you shouldn't
You can talk to me if you want, I'll be your friend and I'll never hate you.
NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Nobody hates you. I like you. You seem like a very nice person. NEVER EVER KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Absolutely not. I think most of the many people who are responding have been thorough some, if not all, you have.
Remember that you are very young.
You will have more tough times, but also recovery periods where you really enjoy yourself. But right now you are too young and inexperienced in life to know that.
Also, you are suffering from depression and anxiety. That clouds your judgement.
You are in no shape to make a decision like killing yourself.
What you must do is see your Doctor and let him help you get over this. I can tell you honestly that you can recover, because I was also picked on in school, have had no job and no friends. I too have been so scared I couldn't make a move.
I have never met you, but I can say that I love you because I have suffered like you are suffering. And I got better. You can too.
Please do whatever you can to soothe yourself over the weekend and make an appointment with a Doctor on Monday. Every life is valuable. That includes you.
You are going to be okay.
NO! killing yourself is giving up, DONT GIVE UP GLEN! your only 17, you've got your whole life ahead of you. i no the hard times feel like forever, but it will all blow over, believe it will.
i dont hate you =]
Let me tell you something man
My cousin's wife (22 yrs old) when she was a kid hurt herself very badly in macedonia (not sure exactly what happened to her). She went to a doctor and had all sorts of injections and operations done unprofessionally that were supposed to help her but instead caused serious bone problems. So when she came back to the U.S. doctors said the surgeries caused serious damage to her bones and she might never be able to walk again. So this girl NEVER went to junior high or high school. She was homeschooled and hospitalized for most of her teenage years and had no friends and literally never went out because she had to wear braces on most of her joints. So when she became 19 she went to a bone marrow specialist in Philadelphia who was supposedly the best in the U.S. I'm not sure how but they fully cured her and now you would never know all this happened to her. Now she's very pretty, and she's almost done with college and happily married to my cousin.
Seriously this is true
Your very young don't worry everything will get better
Hey babe :)
I realy understand your problem..I've been there , its not great :(.. but trust me life just gets better.. your always going to have high's and low's in your life sadly:( but dont give up buddie , Keeep that chin high :) remember somone will always love you no matter what ,, Please do not kill yourself , Love susan xxx