Choose what I should do...?!
Question: I have been in a court custody battle with my former spouse over my 10 year old son for a year now. We have months if not a year more to go. My former spouse was abusive to me and did the same to my son. The court placed my son with my parents until the issues could be investigated. My son lived with his father for about 9 months in the past only because I had cancer and depression. I live 1 1/2 hours away from my parents and the driving is killing me. I am not allowed to live with my parents per the court. My parents live in the way out country with no singles, etc. My son wants me near, I want to be near my son, I want to keep the depression warded off also, my doctors are in the city I live in now, and my parents are exhausted and asking for help.
A. Move onto my parents' land with my own housing.
B. Stay put until court ends.
C. Move to an adjacent city to my parents that offers more for young people.
Answers: I have been in a court custody battle with my former spouse over my 10 year old son for a year now. We have months if not a year more to go. My former spouse was abusive to me and did the same to my son. The court placed my son with my parents until the issues could be investigated. My son lived with his father for about 9 months in the past only because I had cancer and depression. I live 1 1/2 hours away from my parents and the driving is killing me. I am not allowed to live with my parents per the court. My parents live in the way out country with no singles, etc. My son wants me near, I want to be near my son, I want to keep the depression warded off also, my doctors are in the city I live in now, and my parents are exhausted and asking for help.
A. Move onto my parents' land with my own housing.
B. Stay put until court ends.
C. Move to an adjacent city to my parents that offers more for young people.
In my opinion you sound like a woman who cares for her son first off, so you should be proud.
But anyways I think you should get as much time with your son before he becomes and adult and get all the memories you can get. trust me memories=happiness. So do what you gotta do sweetie.
i like A...seems to solve the problems. and your son would be thrilled ...your parents would be close by also, to help you if you needed them.
you haveto do whta is best for your son and your health