My friend died 2 years ago I can't move on?!


Question: He was such a sweet person. I loved him a lot. Sometimes I still wanna pick the phone up and call him. Then I remember he won't answer. Sometimes I talk to him. I sit under this big tree and tell him everything. Sometimes I still think he is alive just so I won't be sad. Is this really weird?


Answers: He was such a sweet person. I loved him a lot. Sometimes I still wanna pick the phone up and call him. Then I remember he won't answer. Sometimes I talk to him. I sit under this big tree and tell him everything. Sometimes I still think he is alive just so I won't be sad. Is this really weird?

i m so sorry to hear about your loss.
it isnt wierd that you talk to him
actually thats a VERY good way to cope with feelings
i lost a friend to a drowwning accident and i talk to her.
i lost my papa and i talk to him too
and my friend was killed by a drunk driver and i talk to him
hes watching over you and he can hear you
hes probably really happy that you talk to him

Ofcource not! You just miss him. You loved him so very much! Sorry honey!

It's perfectly normal. At my school we lost two classmates in a period of one year and it was really tough for everyone. If you feel the need to talk to someone have a good friend sit down and discuss the good times. If you feel you need medical help then see a therapist you need to move on and enjoy your life and live your friends as you go. They don't want you to be sad they want you to go and have fun, but just remember them along the way!
Sorry for your loss and I hope you feel better soon!

I'm so sorry Sweetie
Your behaviors are perfectly normal. Everyone grieves in a different way. I know that when i lost my aunt (she was 32 yrs old), i cried at first then became sort of angry that something like this happened to me. Eventually, i was able to accept the fact that she was gone. Just remember that u will see your friend again someday and he is looking down on you from heaven. Just give it time, everything will be all right
God Bless

I wish I could give you a hug! You will get over it. I had some friends commit suicide a few years ago and I totally understand what you are going through. It just takes time. I still think about them and its especially hard because its so senseless. Why did they do it? Didn't they know people loved them? Now I just try to think they are in a better place and they wouldn't want to see me sad and crying. They never wanted me to be sad! I would see a psychologist and cry it out. It helps. =)

wow. well ive never been through a situation like that. but just know he's in a better place & he will always be watching over you. and your behaviors are super normal. one day you will be with him too. you should write him a letter and put it in a bottle and throw it in the ocean. that's what i would do (:

I understand you. Thats really sad. Well but you really need move on. I have experienced death of very close people to me to.
I moved on about 6 months. That depends on how much you care for that person.
There will be time when you will remember him, you will be sad ofcorse. But thats life. You can only think that hes in better place now.
But in your heart and memories he will be always with you.





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