Please Help suicidal thoughts.?!
Question: Ok, if you read this you will think I'm crazy and I am on some sort of drug. But I'm not. Im 13 years old and I always have sucidal thoughts, I dont wana tell anyone becuase then they'll freak out. But I wana get away from people that make my life a living Hell, the main contributor is my father, I cant move out so I always think about what would happen if I just killed myself. I don't know what to do, and saying get help makes me feel worse.
Answers: Ok, if you read this you will think I'm crazy and I am on some sort of drug. But I'm not. Im 13 years old and I always have sucidal thoughts, I dont wana tell anyone becuase then they'll freak out. But I wana get away from people that make my life a living Hell, the main contributor is my father, I cant move out so I always think about what would happen if I just killed myself. I don't know what to do, and saying get help makes me feel worse.
Suicide just causes people pain and misery around you.
People like you have alot to live for but if you don't step up to the plate and say I'm moving and that's final. You have to stand up for yourself and you will find like enjoyable.
Even finding that special someone will make u happier than you can ever imagine.
Well,
If your father is making hurting you, emotionally or physically you should tell another parent or something or child help service.. but its none of my buisness
You only have one life and you should live it the way you want to live it. If your father is standing in the way of continuing your life then you should do something about it.
I mean don't you want to live to see get married and have children or get your job, your boyfriends. passion and love!!!
You do not want to miss out on that, I just met the nicest man ever, hes my prince and we are getting married.
I thought sometimes I hated my life but I thought it was only because of these girls I hated. But now that I see what I would have missed out on. I regret just thinking of it.
I think you need to be brave and hold on,
You are only 13 years old and you have so much more to experience.
Please, for me think of what I told you, cuz I meant every word of it
Good Luck
xoxo
Love
SUNNY:)
just go to the school councilor they are not alloud to say anything to anybody if u ask them not to
Do you have any family member outside your immediate family that you can trust and talk with?
Email me if you need to talk.
People think of what life would be like they were gone but seriously i'm sure things will get better. Just think in 5 years you will be going to college and you will escape him...things will get better but suicide at 13 isn't something you should be seriously considering...everyone goes through rough patches but over time they will get better, trust me!
well just think about it this way. suicide is the most selfish thing you can do. just think about all of the people out there who really care about you, some you dont even know who would be strongly affected if you weren't there.
If you are really having these thoughts, you need to talk to somebody, a teacher, a Friends parents. someone. This is something you honestly can not work through yourself. Depending on why you say your father makes your life "a living hell", try to talk him, work out what is going on.
Don't worry Hun, I know exactly how you feel.
You are not on some drugs, you are just stressed out over your main problems and such things as with social life, and the things your body goes through at this age makes everything worse.
You are not the only thirteen year old who has suicidal thoughts, believe me. You SHOULD talk to someone about this, if you cannot move out or away from your father.
Suicide does NOT solve your problems. You need to stay here, on this earth.
Please honey, talk to someone you trust very well. And tell them how you feel about this whole situation. People that help pull you through all of this chaos, are usually your friends. Doesn't mean don't try family. Be confident that this will pass, that is what you ALWAYS have to do. And it will, I know it does not seem like it, and you just want it to go away but have hope that everything will pass.
Talking to someone who cares makes it so much easier.
I hope this helped.
-Angel-chan
ok, well there is LIFE beyond this.. you cant wait a few more years? if you choose death, you give up on all the things you could have had.. beautiful kids, all the trips to far off places, laughter, heartache, true love, heart break, LEARNING from all the trial and tribulations and coming through wiser, quiet mornings on your own porch with your magazine, kissing your loved ones, making peace with your dad OR making peace about your dad.. ALL these things are the wonderfully euphoric and sometimes painful journey of your life.. except...
its ALMOST yours.. and, if you kill yourself, you'll miss all the amazing chapters that could have been.. So, if you don't want help, I personally think you're being selfish to all the people you haven't met yet that could have known you and really loved you. I really hope you choose life.
http://suicidehotlines.com/
People won't think you're crazy if you tell them what you're going through. There are probably several other people going to your school that are having the same feelings. If you can't talk to someone you feel close to... try a hotline number. If anything you'll be able to get some things off your chest. By talking to someone you're that much closer to getting out of this... good luck! You can get through this, trust me.
do something that makes you happy and gets your mind off of your own life draw, write, listen to music, read get involved with the characters problem so you aren't always thinking about your own, work out, dive into your school work,anything that makes you happy or anything you used to do before you had these thoughts
since you cant move out join school teams or clubs do community services anything to get you out of the house i hope this helps at least a little if you need to talk about anything you can email me
Hang in there! When you are 18 you will be free to make a better life for yourself... I know it seems too long to wait, but it's really worth it.
In the meantime, find one small thing to do each day, that makes you feel happy (even though it might be temporary).
Actually, you should consider telling somebody if at all possible, but not just anybody -- somebody trained not to freak out, like a doctor.
Please don't give up on living. You can survive a miserable childhood and become a happy, successful, independent adult! I know from my own experience.
You are very young and you have the potential to make a very happy life for yourself. In five years, you wont have to deal with your father if you dont want to. Try to surround yourself with people that make you feel good. If he is abusing you, then let the authorities know right away. If he is just being a jerk, then you probably need to open up a better line of communication and let him know how you truly feel. Life is full of tests, but if you kill yourself then you fail the biggest test of all. No matter how dark the night gets, theres always a sunny day after it, and it gets darker right before the light. The best revenge in life is being happy. If you stay in school, get a job that pays well, and start a family of your own, you dont have to include your father in that if you dont want to. Let tall that crap make you stronger. You only really fail if you give up in this life. And remember all of the people that you would devastate. Suicide resolves nothing and costs everything. Also try to think of the people that have it worse than you. Ride it out for another five years and stay positive. Try to stay in positive environments and around positive people. If you really think you are about to hurt yourself call 911.
Stop. Get your thinking brain working. Get control back. Get space for yourself away from those who bug you: any/every chance you get. Think about the next chance you get in the future to MAKE your own future.....you really do have a shot at being the author of your OWN life.....sometime soon....
Talk to your school counselor or nurse about your feelings and your father. You need to talk to someone to make sure things are OK at home. It will also make you feel better to be heard. Hang in there sweetie.
You are profoundly depressed and need urgent medical treatment for it.
Your school counselor or school nurse can help you with this.
As much as you want to kill yourself, please don't. There are actually people in the world who DO care about you, and the swath of destruction you'd leave behind you would be very damaging to THEM. People who survive the passing of a suicide victim have horrible guilt that they were either responsible for it, or that they didn't recognize the signs and help the person to get treatment.
Another thing to consider is the possibility of "copy-cat" suicides, in which other kids will see you as an example and follow your lead. Many times, there are clusters of suicides in schools because it's the "hip" thing to do, or is considered to be cool. When that happens, everyone in the community is affected.
I know you see it as the ultimate "f*ck you", but it's actually the last resort of a coward who was either afraid of treatment or fed up with it.
Get help-- you don't have to feel like this.
Life is God's great gift for us. Never kill life, your own or others". Suicide does not solve problems, it creates problems.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives us air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives us water to drink and food to eat.
God gives us a wonderful body and a sound mind and life.
God loves us, and we are precious to Him.
The Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven.
Jesus