Iam totally down can some one help me.....?!
Question: i jus got my periods.i have been ttc for 6yrs now and nothing is working out.this itme though i had all syptoms of pregnancy and now i have my periods.this is very upsetng for me.
now on top of that my husband is going on an officila tour.the moment he leaves i jus start crying.i dont know why,i jus cant stay with him.i cry bcos i miss him a lot.my whole world revolves arund him.i jus keep thinking of him all the time...i have tried everything else to take my mind out of these things but nothing works.all the time i keep thinking abt him.and now i have my periods and he is not going to be around for couple of days iam feeling more and more upset.i feel like crying.nobody is trying to understand me,i mean my friends.they think i being childish.they dont understand that my husband is everything for me.i love him so much...pls help me...
Answers: i jus got my periods.i have been ttc for 6yrs now and nothing is working out.this itme though i had all syptoms of pregnancy and now i have my periods.this is very upsetng for me.
now on top of that my husband is going on an officila tour.the moment he leaves i jus start crying.i dont know why,i jus cant stay with him.i cry bcos i miss him a lot.my whole world revolves arund him.i jus keep thinking of him all the time...i have tried everything else to take my mind out of these things but nothing works.all the time i keep thinking abt him.and now i have my periods and he is not going to be around for couple of days iam feeling more and more upset.i feel like crying.nobody is trying to understand me,i mean my friends.they think i being childish.they dont understand that my husband is everything for me.i love him so much...pls help me...
ur friends are having issues helping u because they see u getting tore up over this but ur not doing anything about it...u let ur emotions control u too much and i understand its hard not to...u just get this overwhelming feeling and it just BAM comes out... u need to space urself away from ur husband some take the time that he is gone to do something for urself...try u and a few of ur good friends go to a spa... or if u cant afford that...go out dancing with em... u have to force urself to do things...thats the problem... ppl sit back and they dont wanna do anything ... its too hard... but u have to ull never get any better by sitting there doing nothing...btw wat is ttc? IM me or email me... my contact info is on my profile
I understand some what what you are dealing with but maybe you should professional help. If you cant be happy by yourself there is a problem. Be glad you are married and get to spend time with your husband but also enjoy the time you spend apart. Everyone needs me time. Plus it seems like you really want and crave love and if you do not love yourself than no one else can fill the void to make you happy. Like i said some therapy might be good for you along with a hobby or a job...
you have got to get a Life, girlfr'en. A baby won't hold him to you, or fix your empty life, and you being so darned Needy will not either. You have to have something to bring to the table other than devotion. The only cure I know to truly work for such overwhelming self-pity (yep, need to grow up, sweetpea- don't worry, it'll come) is to focus on others. Find somewhere to volunteer- somewhere associated with your hubby- that makes you feel useful, needed, and closer to him while he's gone. Stress is the #1 reason for infertility; the chemicals produced by constant stress are not conducive to getting the embryo to "stick" inside you. That is why so many women in fertility treatment say they got pregnant with no help the second time, or they have a baby right after adopting; no stress. Just stop the pity party, it's not healthy, helpful, or endearing.
it is great that you have so much love for your husband, my partner is away a lot as well and i used to get down about it then i realized that this helps our relationship so many couples don't realize how much they care for there partners and they grow apart. you just have to use that energy and look forward to his return take care
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