Is it ok to live a lie if its going to help you in your future?!
Question: is it better to ignore your problems for the sake of life like for your family or friends or kids so you dont hurt them physically or emotionally. or do you let your problems take over your life and them everyone hates you cuz you have issues
Answers: is it better to ignore your problems for the sake of life like for your family or friends or kids so you dont hurt them physically or emotionally. or do you let your problems take over your life and them everyone hates you cuz you have issues
you cant run from your problems they have a way of catching up with you it dosnt matter how long it takes lies find a way to haunt you we all have secrets though and sometimes there better kept that way
how bout talkin it over with someone close you noe? and yeah
it depend how big the lie is
Nope, I did that, and now I am on trial and might face jail time!
It's the little lies that add up in the end. Live honest now and life will be much better :)
I control them because i'm mentally stable.
There's a part missing here. You could ignore your problems (and they will get worse), or you could let them take over your life (and everyone will hate you because you have issues), or you could deal with the problem(s) and find some solutions with the help of your friends and family. That would be my choice...........
Don't ignore your problems. Do something to fix it. You see it's either you fix it or you let it take over your life and ruin you. If you can't fix it I wouldn't live a lie. Why? Because sooner or later it's going to catch up with you and ruin everything in the end. Good luck. :)
Its not like people don't do it in real life. But the people who live life to the fullest are the ones that have no guilt or shame dragging them down in achieving what they want. How is this possible? They're completely honest people. Nothing is ever purely good. What doesn't hurt you now can kill you later. Remember that a point where you have no secrets or no issues that need resolving is the point where you are physically AND mentally FREE. You know just like I do that when you're a free person, nothing can tell you how to live. On that note, you can live how you like. Who doesn't want a bit of freedom?
Come on you shouldn't be worried about this.I think the best thing you can do is actually tell the truth and I am sure your friends and family will help and understand you rather than say you have issues and so we don't want to know you because of this reason or fear you hide it from them and lying about it which will then upset them and they might be unlikely to understand you when its too late.I have faced a similar situation where I had to lie when it came to my health and other personal issues and I have faced so many problems due to that lie or you can say lies that I now wish I should have told them/him about it when it was the right time.I have learned from that and don't lie about such things anymore even if it is for a benefit to the other which it never is in the long run.You can decide when it is the right time to tell them and don't just live with it.Best Wishes and Don't be too hard on yourself.Everyone has issues,unless they tell someone who they love,it gets worst.You will feel so much better after telling them!!!!!!!!!!
YES, SOMETIMES, SOME TRUTH USE TO GET YOU SOME PROBLEMS.
it is better to tell the truth...and the heck with the rest of them...if they aren't going to be there for you...you don't need the headache you need a support system,..if you lie to yourself about things, then you might end up being an abuse victim..and shame on those that didn't have faith in you
Ignoring problems is a lose-lose situation as you suffer the consequences of avoiding what must be dealt with which expresses itself in moodiness, irritability, low self-esteem and multiple other issues which just adds to your list of problems and has an adverse effect on your family and friends. I don't, really, see the connection between ignoring problems and hurting people physically or emotionally - you're the one who is being hurt emotionally and as far as hurting someone physically I, again, can't quite tune into your channel with this. Deal with your issues instead of avoiding them and, if you're not capable of doing this, I suggest you seek professional counseling before you implode or explode.
depends
I strongly agree with "J" in what he wrote:
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Its not like people don't do it in real life. But the people who live life to the fullest are the ones that have no guilt or shame dragging them down in achieving what they want. How is this possible? They're completely honest people. Nothing is ever purely good. What doesn't hurt you now can kill you later. Remember that a point where you have no secrets or no issues that need resolving is the point where you are physically AND mentally FREE. You know just like I do that when you're a free person, nothing can tell you how to live. On that note, you can live how you like. Who doesn't want a bit of freedom?
Are you cut out to live a lie? If you don't mind skulking around, leading a double life and constantly having to look over your shoulder to make sure you don't get found out, you may have just what it takes.you are setting yourself up to be found out.
Include as much truth in your creative stories as you can. It will be easier to slide into the lie if much of it is based on fact.
Live a lie? You are not dead serious are you?
Look, i don't think it's worth it skulking around, leading a double life and constantly having to look over your shoulder to make sure you don't get found out, simply another mistake to lead your life.
There are some instances where one simply needs to completely forget the problem to solve the problem. For example a person who is completely overcome by a situation may need to completely forget the problem before taking any action. Sometimes just by ignoring the problem, the problem will ease.
Perceiving negative circumstance as positive potential gives us the necessary base of peace and equality to move in the right direction to solve the problems we encounter. With such an attitude one is already well on the way to solving even the most serious problems of life.