I'm in the point in my life that feel that i dont know what to do anymore?!


Question: Please no judging i have enough of that in my life. I Am pregnant with #2 i am only 19 years and i have no high school diploma..i dont know where to go to get my ged. My boyfriend and i fight everyday over the stupidesty sh!t i have no job (which i am scared by next month ill be homeless (i live with my mom for now but she plans on kicking me out) I am always tired weak sick angry i feel that i have a blood disorder (i felt this way before i got pg) Im about 10,000$ in debt...i just want to got back on track but i have no idea where to begin please someone help me


Answers: Please no judging i have enough of that in my life. I Am pregnant with #2 i am only 19 years and i have no high school diploma..i dont know where to go to get my ged. My boyfriend and i fight everyday over the stupidesty sh!t i have no job (which i am scared by next month ill be homeless (i live with my mom for now but she plans on kicking me out) I am always tired weak sick angry i feel that i have a blood disorder (i felt this way before i got pg) Im about 10,000$ in debt...i just want to got back on track but i have no idea where to begin please someone help me

You are still young so you still have the oppurtunity to go to school and continue your academics. An education is the MOST important in your future and it will determine everything you will encounter in life. And I am assuming that you've heard this many, many times, but now you may be starting to reconize it's meaning.

Don't get so caught up in your job right now, you should go to college first and then think of your life when you finish. You still have time, so you can look into colleges that will accept you.

As for your boyfriend, he doesn't sound like the person you should have right now. Tell him how you feel and how you need to get your life on track. In the mean time, look for someone who can guide you and help you with your financial problems. Find a GOOD man who understands your condition and cares for you at the same time.

Apparantly, your mother is not very caring for you. Try talking to her in a calm way to persuade her to understand your condition. Tell her to help you and to truly care for you if she loves you. Do things HER way and help her out, and show that you care for her to make her like you more and then she may think twice. If not, move in with a friend or a close relative.

Until you are financially secure, keep working if you cannot go to college and go on welfare. You can get money from the government if you are in really bad shape. Go to the City Hall in your area and talk to them about your condition and find out what they have to offer you.

As for your blood disorder, go to the doctor so he can diagnose you. They may take it into consideration of your finiancial problems so you won't have to pay a big fat fine for the visit.

I truly wish I can help you, and I hope you get your life in order. I hate to see people suffering in this world because they made the wrong decisions when they were younger. I will pray for you and I wish you the best.

Ciao, my friend.

Leave your man, find a nice rich bloke to take care of you :)

Try getting help from a psychiatrist. They can point you in a good direction.

I think you should tackle each problem, one at a time. I believe your mum kicking you out is the most serious. You need to talk to her. Tell her you're so young, and you're having your second child, and you really need her support. On getting a job, it may not be possible for you depending on how far along in the pregnancy you are, and how sick you feel, but if it's not that bad, try applying for a job. If you can't get a job, maybe you should ask your boyfriend to get one to help support the both of you, as well as your children. Try and find out why you are so angry at each other, and that's why these fights start, and then try and find a resolution from that. You're both probably frustrated. Once your child is born, maybe you could check out the local area for programs that may help you.

please message me and tell me where you live, in what city. I am going to try to find someone there who can really help you.
I'll be waiting to hear from you.





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