I have really low self esteem, help?!
Question: i have had since i was little, my friends say i'm a good size, they say i have an amazing waist, i think not. i have small boobs and big theighs and there is nothing i want to do more than curl up in big jumpers. i cant stand wearing tight tops, help!?
Answers: i have had since i was little, my friends say i'm a good size, they say i have an amazing waist, i think not. i have small boobs and big theighs and there is nothing i want to do more than curl up in big jumpers. i cant stand wearing tight tops, help!?
aah...I'm just like you. I have like small boobs and big theighs too. Sometimes it's a problem when I get clothes. But try not to focus on your body. Try to find a friend that you can go shopping with to see what clothes fit or look really nice with you. I don't like wearing tops either especially like how I am. Sometime I think it can fall :) or some people can start talking. So I try to avoid that. The type or style of clothes you buy can make you look like if you have a perfect body. Believe me. I wear shirts that really fits me from the top (that way my perfect small waist can show and wear decent and suitable dress pants or jeans. Many girls would wish to have your body. You just gotta think of your self beautiful, distinct, unique, one of a kind girl. No matter what everyone else thinks of you! If I can do it u can too!!!
tell your parents or a counsulor, you need some help~
Rosie, hate to break it to you but there are guys that like "small boobs".
first all remeber there isnt a way everyone should look!
I have read this in a few magazines, that if you right a list of things you like about yourself(eg-nice personality)then read through the list everytime you feel low!
It should really help!
You can't really get help from other people, or a solution that will automatically make you have higher self esteem.
It's something you have to work on yourself.
It also doesn't sound like you have low self esteem, as such, more of a body image issue.
I would suggest ignoring the "voice" in your head telling you you look bad. And just, not care what other people think.
It's just you that's worrying about how you look, nobody else is thinking anything of it.
Doesn't the comments from your friends say anything to you?
Stop worrying so much.
well listen to your friends
there must be a reason why they all say it.
is there anyone that makes you think this ?
find a boyfriend, that will love you for what you look like
every single girl has insecurities about themselves, and would kill to have a perfect body, but no one can be perfect and once you realise this you will start accepting the way you look.
get a boy that makes you feel good about yourself, and concentrate on your good points - not bad (:
hey there.
you should never worry about the way you look. My boobs are ridiculously small, but their mine. What matters is 'you', the person 'you' are, the girl on the inside, not the outside. I bet your a lovely person at heart, caring and beautiful. You don't need to wear tight tops to be 'you'. If curling up in big jumps is what makes you then go for it, because someone will love you for that. Be comfortable with yourself, and your self esteem will get better.
much love
xx