Head is spinning about suicide?!


Question: alright i have been been very suicidal for a couple of years, i attempt suicide at least once a month and cut myself pretty much every night, but i don't want to call one of those suicide hotlines because i think they are bullshit, they say they are confidential but they arn't last time i called them an ambulance came down my drive way and i spent 4 months in hospital i am sick of going to hospitals because i always come out even more depressed then when i went in. all i want is to talk to someone and get some things off my chest without me being chucked into hospital again... and again... and again thanks i would really appreciate peoples opinions


Answers: alright i have been been very suicidal for a couple of years, i attempt suicide at least once a month and cut myself pretty much every night, but i don't want to call one of those suicide hotlines because i think they are bullshit, they say they are confidential but they arn't last time i called them an ambulance came down my drive way and i spent 4 months in hospital i am sick of going to hospitals because i always come out even more depressed then when i went in. all i want is to talk to someone and get some things off my chest without me being chucked into hospital again... and again... and again thanks i would really appreciate peoples opinions

Hello! I have attempted suicide by cutting myself also. All I wanted was someone to talk to. I didn't have the courage to do it for real. My sister-in-law inadvertently told me how one would do it if they REALLY wanted to. She's an e.r. nurse. When she told me, I thought of what it might do to the rest of my family if I did it. I have been close ever since, but now I have all of this guilt on top of everything else!!!!
Does cutting make you feel better??? For a little while at least???
Can we talk??? Maybe we could help each other!

That sounds exactly like what I went through as a teen... It's kinda freaky how close it is... if you want to talk you can talk to me...

well first off it is about what you are thinking about.... and why/how it happened..... oh and if you do call another hotline again.... dont tell them where you live! lol well we need more information so we know what we are talking about =P lol so uh...... yeah..... oh and dont call the hotlines if you really dont wanna go to a hospital........ or talk to a close friend =P it healps i was like that.... and i am only 13! lol

dont commit suicide or cut yourself seriously they are the wrong options!!!!!!!!
as time goess by things will change and the way you feel will change
plz just dont commit suicide

Yep...me too even now...so you can contact me whenever you need to to.

The hotlines you refer to ARE confidential - with two important exceptions: if you are going to harm yourself or harm others.

That goes for all medical confidentiality, and there is no way around it because it is irresponsible to ignore it.

I'm really sorry to hear about your tough time, and that hospital hasn't been useful for you. But that doesn't mean there's no hope!

If you want to talk to someone to get things off your chest, what's stopping you? Why don't you go to a counsellor, social worker, psychologist or psychiatrist? Why do you feel like an internet questions forum is going to give you the answer?

I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling, but if you are attempting suicide monthly for 2 years and you are still here, it sounds more like a cry for help than a real desire to die. And that's good, because life CAN get better. Unfortunately, it's in your hands - you can't wait for someone to make you better, or take a magical medication and instantly you're ok.

If you want things to improve, see a doctor (and explain to them rationally that you will not go to hospital, provided you don't continue to harm yourself), see a counsellor, try antidepressants, exercise, social activities, hobbies, and even look up a self-help or support group on the net.

If YOU want to be healthy, YOU can do it, no one else.

Hey your not the only one. I never went to hospitals but I was the suicidal time a while back. If you ever wanna talk or if you ever just need someone to listen I am always here for you an for everyone. Sometimes for me it is easier to talk to someone you don't know because for some reason your friends are a little quicker to judge than a stranger. Hope everything gets better.. an in time it will. Shoot me a email or what not. lilcountrycupcake87@yahoo.com. :):):) cheer up, to day could be your last day of depression. It's all up to you. :)

suicide hotlines are there to "talk people down" when they are suicidal. if the person feels they haven't successfully been able to do that they have to get you help. it's there job to prevent someone from commiting suicide. have you actually talked to a therapist? that is what they are trained to do, listen to others propblems and help tham overcome and learn coping skills so they don't try to harm themselves. sounds like you need some serious help if you try to kill yourself on a regular basis. do you have anyone in your life you can confide in? if not, then you reallyshould go get professional help and stick to it.

As much as you do not want to call those hot-lines, you do need to reach out to someone. What you're going through is not that uncommon and all you need is a little lift up and over this season of life. I've been there; I tried drugs, alcohol, relationships and there were no answers to be found until I found someone who would listen to me. Oddly enough, my Mom suggested that i call her friend who would spend hours on the phone with me listening, and most importantly, praying for me. Prayer moves mountains and I will pray that The Lord lead someone to you that you can trust. I pray right now that you learn to see yourself the way God sees you, and I pray that someday you will help another who will be struggling just as you are today. It gets better...Love Destiny

what you need to do is fine somethin anything that brings you happyness tap dancing playing an instrument or doing crossword puzzles, something that for an hour you can bloke everything out for get everything that is depressing you. i find the best listener and comfort is an animal not a human as humans always have thier own opinion and stuff. get a cat from a shelter and older one whos very affectionate. when i was suicidal i found astray who had the worst life possible the vet found signs of stravation and toture with this poor thing. when i gave her a new life becuase they were goin to put her down she brought so much happiness. she always knew when i was sad and came and cuddled and looked at me as to say i love you and i need you. it was beautiful. they give you something to live for and a purpose. they will always listen to you and be there with that look of i know. if you ever want any human help feel free to email me. i know its good to talk to someone when your confused and if you just wanna say stuff get an animal they will always listen.





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