Am i drinking too much?!
Question: im alone a lot and seem to like it that way i keep people at arms distance,and im bringing up child alone i dont get much time to go out maybe 5 times a year,i have no family as i was not a wanted child myself...im drinking 2 bottles of wine a week and maybe 10 cans larger(over two nights)...im lonely i think but cant handle people around me what do i do?
Answers: im alone a lot and seem to like it that way i keep people at arms distance,and im bringing up child alone i dont get much time to go out maybe 5 times a year,i have no family as i was not a wanted child myself...im drinking 2 bottles of wine a week and maybe 10 cans larger(over two nights)...im lonely i think but cant handle people around me what do i do?
hello...i would say drinking alone is a problem,and to ask this question i would guess you are falling in a pattern that you not sure if you can get out of it its getting worse...it sounds as if you have many unresolved issues that need to be addressed.i would suggest you get in contact soon with AA as you dont have to be a drinker who drinks every day to get help they also help people like yourself that reconise that they have a problem that could get worse without help.
good luck.
I suggest looking into some daddy/mommy and me groups and maybe you can meet someone that you can spend time with so you don't feel so alone. Having a drink or a couple of drinks twice a week is okay by me, just don't get too crazy.
Good luck out there.
Whats your job?
if your job is keeping you from doing this, quit and join anther job that makes you socialize with people more.
Your probably just drinking that much because your board and have nothing better to do.
Find things that intrest you [ video games, excersizing, walks, etc ] + do those things; that will keep your mind off drinking resulting as your less miserable and will want to get out and socialize and maybe find yourself a 'hot' mama. :]
Yes, I believe that you are drinking too much. Especially since you are bringing up a child alone. You need to cool down on the drinking.It'll cause problems in the long run.
try to get out more! there's lots of groups for people like you, the first step's the hardest but it's worth it! I had the same problem for a year or two but getting out there makes the difference! Try even taking your drinking to the outdoors, park bench, bus shelter etc you can meet great people especially with a kid in tow!!
The Wine consumption seems fine, but cut down a bit on the Lager, also try Cider in moderation too. As they say a 'little is fine but over do it and regret it'
Drink Wise My Friend
I dont think you're drinking too much just now but it could soon become a problem. You should try to meet people with the same interests as you. Maybe you just need to learn how to open up in front of people and learn to trust. I guess issues in your past don't help much when it comes to forming any kind of relationship including friendship, maybe you should speak to someone about that. Good luck
if u have to ask then its a yes :)
do you feel as if you're drinking too much and more importantly how do feel when you don't drink at all.
Yes, you will harm your child like you were harmed...having a parent who is withdrawn, depressed, isolated & drinking.
Make a plan to stop drinking for a month. If you can do it, make it 2 months...be aware of your feelings & thoughts during this time (stress, depression, anxiety, rage, hurt, rejection, etc).
If you can't seek help: 12 step programs & therapy.
Try seeking assistance from a professional social worker or psychologist who can help you with these underlying feelings & thoughts and help boost your self confidence. Having someone who's on your side can help you deal with having others around you. You don't have to be a social butterfly.
Do you make play dates for your child? This may be a good way to get out of yourself...remember others can't see your inside feelings. Make your own new family!
My best to you.
anyone that questions thier own drinking habits has to admit to themselves that this is not what a normal drinker does. try going a few days without alcohol and see if it causes you to be edgy and irritable.
You aren't drinking too much , just drinking for the wrong reasons. Spend time with your kid. Find some hobbies. There are a lot of things you can do alone aside drink wine
get a therapist to talk to and try to reduce the amount you drink like about half.If you think you have a serious problem go to an alcoholic meeting.