Never good enough?!
Question: You know a very shy, soft-spoken young woman who is starting to open up to you. She tells you that a friend of hers has not been treating her right for years. She tells you, "Nothing I do or say is ever good enough....and whenever I want to resolve the issues, we have to just push them under the rug..." Aside from telling you this information, she's VERY quiet and shy.
What would you think of this girl? What conclusions could you come to?
Answers: You know a very shy, soft-spoken young woman who is starting to open up to you. She tells you that a friend of hers has not been treating her right for years. She tells you, "Nothing I do or say is ever good enough....and whenever I want to resolve the issues, we have to just push them under the rug..." Aside from telling you this information, she's VERY quiet and shy.
What would you think of this girl? What conclusions could you come to?
I would come to the conclusion that this young lady is in a bad relationship. I would assume that her man has been treating her horrible and by pushing the situation under the rug serves as a temporary fix. Out of sight out of mind, but for her it is not that way. She needs to resolve her issues.
I would talk with her and be her friend. Talking should help her especially if she is the quiet type cuz you maybe the only one listening. Listening is a very strong thing.
If theres anyway she can speak up and talk with the person mistreating her and come to some type of resolution.
Hopefully it does not turn negative..
She might also start workin on herself. As years of being made to feel like you are not good enough leaves damaging scars. Its a long process... Just take things 1 step at a time
That's what I would think...
as long as she has a good heart and is a good person she is good enough. help her with ehr confidence and motivation so she can see she is a special person