HELP! why am I so easily influenced by my surroundings??!
Question: it's killing me,
I'm changing everyday depending on who i'm around, what I see, etc.
I even get smarter and then become stupid all of a sudden.
now I feel empty.
I verryy much like myself, but I cant seem to stay that way I want too.
whats wrong??
and by the way, I haatttee most people with a passion and find them stupid, I can back that up.
yet I find myself influenced by them.
Answers: it's killing me,
I'm changing everyday depending on who i'm around, what I see, etc.
I even get smarter and then become stupid all of a sudden.
now I feel empty.
I verryy much like myself, but I cant seem to stay that way I want too.
whats wrong??
and by the way, I haatttee most people with a passion and find them stupid, I can back that up.
yet I find myself influenced by them.
I like to think of it this way....
Nothing is real and every thing is real at the same time.... Everything I know is wrong and ever thing I know is right at the same time... It's hard to explain but when I do this I become natural to my surroundings and they have no effect on me.... It's like I'm a spectator of my own life....
I hope you understood that.... I can't explain it that well
"You are the company you keep".
It is very easy to become influenced by those around you. Especially if you consider your company to be socially superior to you in any way. Everyone has a desire to fit in, to please others, and to make ourselves more "likeable". However, if you are very easily influenced by those around you, you probably feel as though you cannot let go and be yourself. That is because you believe that they may not like person you "really" are. In the longrun, trying to fit into a crowd that does not make you feel comfortable enough to be yourself will hurt you emotionally because you will begin to feel like you have no real friends.
I know what you mean. I used to be like that but i grew out of it 'cause i realised people only want to kknow the real you.
It sounds like you're too scared to be disliked, you change around other people because you don't want them to judge you in a bad way. Just be yourself 'cause soon your friends will see through you and they'll end up not liking you.
Sounds like a simple case of not being sure of who you are yet. If you are a youngin' or teen, it's very normal to go through this. We are not sure of who we are or who we want to become, so we take on different traits and drop the ones that don't suit us. Don't worry-as you age, it will all fall into place. You will eventually see what your true potential is and develope your personality around the traits you feel are worthy of you.
Stop calling yourself stupid. That's not something that's going to change you for the better. It's only making you doubt yourself more than you already do. If there's one concrete thing you should always rely on about yourself, it's that you have a brain. Calling yourself stupid is defeating the purpose of enriching your life to live to the fullest potential. You'll figure it out. Don't worry. Best of luck :)
This is my personal knowledge on what might be going on with you. I call what is going on with you as Society Controlled.
There is so much out there in this world, you try to keep up with it. People today are easily influence about alot of things.
You may also have Post Dramatic Stress. Start doing for yourself and what you need, you do not always have to listen to everyone, you are your own person. With Post Dramatic Stress you will need to see your primary doctor or do a psychic Eva.
maybe you should ask yourself who YOU are and whenever u feel urself being influenced by them, remember that you are your own person