Jealous boyfriend stressing me out???!


Question: My boyfriend of 8 years yes 8 years.. says he trusts me, but he's way too possessive. He hates it when I go out with my friends and claims I want "more out of" my guy friends than just friendship. which is not true.. He doesn't even like it when I talk on the phone with my girlfriends. He swears to me that he trusts me but I don't see it. He goes out with his friends and I don't mind. this is now stressing me out What should I do?


Answers: My boyfriend of 8 years yes 8 years.. says he trusts me, but he's way too possessive. He hates it when I go out with my friends and claims I want "more out of" my guy friends than just friendship. which is not true.. He doesn't even like it when I talk on the phone with my girlfriends. He swears to me that he trusts me but I don't see it. He goes out with his friends and I don't mind. this is now stressing me out What should I do?

when a person feels jealousy it just means that they dont really trust you or they have doubts... true love is not selfish... if he is still like that... talk to him.... try to understand each other....

Be careful because possessiveness leads to physical abuse. You should get out of that relationship before things escalate.

Ok...
If you love him and want to be with him explain things, talk it out.
If you do so and not like what happens then run away from the love circle lol.

i guess he doesn't believe in the saying "If you love someone, set them free."..hehe...well...its never a good thing to have an overly jealous insecure boyfriend...being a little jealous is fine and i guess flattering...but if he over does it...then your relationship has some issues

Have you ever given him a reason not to trust you? Not necessarily cheating, but like trying to make him jealous for attention?? Anything... It is wrong that he gets mad with you for talking with you girlfriends. Has he always been this way, or has it become a recent thing? Because if it is just now starting, maybe he is having issues with himself... like becoming stressed and depressed, maybe a feeling of self-worth. I know how stressful things like this can be, but communication is always a big factor in any relationship. Therefore, if he says one thing and does another call him out right then, if he gets all pissy... when he is calm request him to seek therapy or maybe you both go to couples therapy.

8 years is a long time has he always been possessive?
up to you, but if this is not a major prob or if you can get thru to him that it is affecting you talk it thru to a resolution
if not, if it is affecting you big time you may have to consider if you will continue in this relationship
you deserve to be happy & trusted

You and your boyfriend are not compatible. He wants a more close relationship while you want more freedom. Both of you would be better off with different partners with compatible personalities.





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