Does causal sex carry any emotional consequenses..???!
Question: To answer such a broad question since I do not know your age I would say definitely. Iam old school at this time in my life because I have lived through many situations with dating and making a decision to indulge or not too. When I was 14 my parents divorced after 20 years of marraige. My mother remarried right away and I could not stand her choice. He was a very nasty man and mean. I left home at 16. My saving grace at that time was my grandmother who had always been there for me. I just knew that having sex at my age was wrong. I ended up basicly supporting myself by working at a Russian Resort in their restaurant. Iam Russian and grew up around there because that is where I went to church and camps. I loved it. That is where my first boyfriend came about. I was very lonely and was convinced after a few dates plus riding around in his car was so much fun and I believed he really loved me. We went parking one night and he tried. I did not give in because a little voice inside told me I would regret it. The next day I saw him driving by with another girl sitting next to him. I cried but was glad, so proud of myself for not giving in. You see my idea was to truely be in love with someone, marry and have that emotional loving sexual relationship that would guarentee my dignity and self respect. I once heard a story from a church I attended which has stuck with me my whole life. God created sex between a man and women for not only pleasure but a sound mental and emotional union. He said that having many different partners and sharing the most intimate part of yourself was like peeling an onion. With each experience you lose a layer of yourself and then you could be stripping away so much emotion and become just a small piece exposed. Then you meet the right one. You are really in love and are commited. Well what will you be bringing to your wedding night? Lots of thoughts of other people? Maybe even disease. So, yes I would say there is a huge amount of emotional consequenses at stake. If you want someone in your life who will really love only you for the rest of your life, I would give this a great amount of thought. I wish you the best. Brooklyn.
Answers: To answer such a broad question since I do not know your age I would say definitely. Iam old school at this time in my life because I have lived through many situations with dating and making a decision to indulge or not too. When I was 14 my parents divorced after 20 years of marraige. My mother remarried right away and I could not stand her choice. He was a very nasty man and mean. I left home at 16. My saving grace at that time was my grandmother who had always been there for me. I just knew that having sex at my age was wrong. I ended up basicly supporting myself by working at a Russian Resort in their restaurant. Iam Russian and grew up around there because that is where I went to church and camps. I loved it. That is where my first boyfriend came about. I was very lonely and was convinced after a few dates plus riding around in his car was so much fun and I believed he really loved me. We went parking one night and he tried. I did not give in because a little voice inside told me I would regret it. The next day I saw him driving by with another girl sitting next to him. I cried but was glad, so proud of myself for not giving in. You see my idea was to truely be in love with someone, marry and have that emotional loving sexual relationship that would guarentee my dignity and self respect. I once heard a story from a church I attended which has stuck with me my whole life. God created sex between a man and women for not only pleasure but a sound mental and emotional union. He said that having many different partners and sharing the most intimate part of yourself was like peeling an onion. With each experience you lose a layer of yourself and then you could be stripping away so much emotion and become just a small piece exposed. Then you meet the right one. You are really in love and are commited. Well what will you be bringing to your wedding night? Lots of thoughts of other people? Maybe even disease. So, yes I would say there is a huge amount of emotional consequenses at stake. If you want someone in your life who will really love only you for the rest of your life, I would give this a great amount of thought. I wish you the best. Brooklyn.
Just "casual" emotions
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It can.
Casual sex can be fun if done safely--meaning obviously, with a condom, but also safe in the sense that both parties know what the situation is.
In other words, if one person is just looking for some fun and the other person thinks that having sex may lead to a relationship, there's a problem.
If both parties are on the same page and know that what they're doing is just physical, and they respect one another, I think there's very little chance of emotional consequences.
oh my god!
please dont tell me your actually asking this!
yes yes double yes!
but you get over it
lolz
Oh sure!!!
Or did you want 'details'....?
Yes and can cause physical consequences also ie: STD's
only if you want it to ... ( if you care 'bout it too much)