Why can't I let it go?!
Question: I dated a guy from my job for 3 months, one month and a half was great, the other was hell, he used me and when he realized I was in love he didnt care and after that I was the one that said we shouldnt date anymore. after a month from that he had a new girlfriend ( which he was dating after we stopdating). I loved him but I know he wasn't the right onw for me. Yesterday ( which is like 2 months after we stop dating) I left a friend near his place at like 3am, and passed by his house to see if he was in. I just did it cos my friends house was like 2 blocks from his I dont normally do that, but I feel weird cos 2 months went by and I feel I still talk about him and wanna know what he is up to, cos we dont talk anymore. Is this normal? Should I be friends with him even tought he treated me bad, lied and lost respect for me? Seems to me he doesnt even care if Im ok.
Answers: It's normal to feel that way, but you need to let it go. Do not be friends, he was a jerk. You still want him in your life, but he'd only treat you like a jerk again. If you contact him, it will boost his ego but not get you what you want. Move on. You only still like him because you're thinking of what you could have had. But you never had it.