I need a confidence boost... please help.?!


Question: all my friends tell me im mean to myself. i have "really pretty blue eyes and red hair" so my friends all tell me. i am really self concious, and everyone is always telling me to stop worrying, and i think they're annoyed. please help. i have a lot of things going on right now, more specifically, my parents are getting a divorce, im 12. im really sad right now, PLEASE help, i need a serious confidence boost.


Answers: hi , First of all let me say I'm sorry to hear about your mum and dad, but these things happen.
Red hair and blue eyes, how lucky can you get.
Aged twelve is not a good time to be sad, but let me tell you that there isn't any age that's good to be sad.
If at the age of twelve you weren't self conscious then I would be very surprised.
So stop beating yourself up about your parents problems,let them know what their problems are doing to your self esteme and let them Know how you feel.As parents they need to help you, more so at this difficult time than in the past, that means both of them, their problems are not your fault.
If it's any help I gew up without a dad after my parents divorced and looking back over many years it didn't seem to do me much harm,because although they were seperate they both still loved me.
Hope that this helps,you made the hardest decision when you decided to share your problem, even if you did'nt know who to share it with.
Best wishes for the rest of you life.





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