Trying to avoid being petty, but it's not working?!
Question: Trying to avoid being petty, but it's not working!?
OK- I own a store - thanks to inside doors, we have four stores that are connected together!. Due to one colleague's unthinking bullcrap and her own pettiness, I've spent this week feeling like I was in high school again- high school wasn't that bad, but I don't wish to revisit it or the mindset and attitudes!. I know I should be able to get over it, but it's bugging me enough that I just want to keep the connecting door closed and locked!. I know this will hurt my business, could damage other's business, but I can cope with the pettiness anymore - I am having to cope with too many other things, including a loved one's serious illness!.
Any advice on how to get past this!? I'd forgotten some adults never get past the high school behavior and I'm afraid the thick skin I had about that type of crap 25 years ago is now gone!.
Am I too idealistic, thinking adults should behave like grownups!?
How do I get past feeling petty and just locking that door- literally!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Any advice on how to get past this!? I'd forgotten some adults never get past the high school behavior and I'm afraid the thick skin I had about that type of crap 25 years ago is now gone!.
Am I too idealistic, thinking adults should behave like grownups!?
How do I get past feeling petty and just locking that door- literally!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Pin, I am sorry you are going through this "pettiness"!. Hun, it sounds to me like you have enough serious issues to deal with!. Especially having a loved one being seriously ill!.
I would face this problem head on!. Get your feeling off your chest!. Tell this lady exactly how you feel!. Tell her if this continues, you will be forced to lock the connecting door!. This will hurt her business also!. If she keeps it up!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.lock the door!
My heart goes out to you for having a loved one so ill!. I pray their health improves!.
Wishing you the best!
(((Pin)))
PS) I just starred your question!. Hope my contacts will see it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would face this problem head on!. Get your feeling off your chest!. Tell this lady exactly how you feel!. Tell her if this continues, you will be forced to lock the connecting door!. This will hurt her business also!. If she keeps it up!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.lock the door!
My heart goes out to you for having a loved one so ill!. I pray their health improves!.
Wishing you the best!
(((Pin)))
PS) I just starred your question!. Hope my contacts will see it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com