PLEASE ANSWER: I seriously can't take this anymore..?!
Question: PLEASE ANSWER: I seriously can't take this anymore!.!.!?
I seriously don't think I can last another week of this!.!.
I am 13 years old!.!.
Monday-Friday
Get up 6:30, go to school and get home at 2:45!. Drive an hour to gymnastics!. I am a level 10 gymnast, and stress and pressure is VERY HIGH!. Practice from 5-9pm!. Get home at 10:15, and normally I get to bed around 12:30!. I seriously can't do this ANYMORE!. I am not aloud to quit gymnastics so that isn't an option!. I do gymnastics to keep my parents happy!. If you have any suggestions, please let me know!.
( and I know I all ready asked this question, but I wanted more opinions!!)
also, I am in HUGE trouble right now because my mom said i am not showing enough respect to her!? I am stressed out! I really have NO IDEA what to do!!!
She also told me that I needed to loose weight!.!.
I am 5"2, and 110 pounds!.!. PLEASE HELP ME!.
I am thinking about going anorexic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 13 years old!.!.
Monday-Friday
Get up 6:30, go to school and get home at 2:45!. Drive an hour to gymnastics!. I am a level 10 gymnast, and stress and pressure is VERY HIGH!. Practice from 5-9pm!. Get home at 10:15, and normally I get to bed around 12:30!. I seriously can't do this ANYMORE!. I am not aloud to quit gymnastics so that isn't an option!. I do gymnastics to keep my parents happy!. If you have any suggestions, please let me know!.
( and I know I all ready asked this question, but I wanted more opinions!!)
also, I am in HUGE trouble right now because my mom said i am not showing enough respect to her!? I am stressed out! I really have NO IDEA what to do!!!
She also told me that I needed to loose weight!.!.
I am 5"2, and 110 pounds!.!. PLEASE HELP ME!.
I am thinking about going anorexic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
What you are going through is so unfair!. I remember being in the 3rd grade when my parents hired an Algebra tutor for me!. I was barely learning my times tables when I was being forced to stay up till 1-2 AM doing math I didnt understand and being ridiculed for it!. Kids have it so hard and the pressure is crazy these days!. I truly pity your situation!. Please go talk to a councelor NOW!. Don't go another day with all of this pressure on your shoulders!. And they say you have no respect for them-HA!. Where's the respect for you!? You are a human being too!. This makes me angry!. Keep your head up, and always fight for your rights as a human being!. Don't be a rebel, but do what needs to be done-in a smart, productive way-to make sure your needs are met, you are heard, and respected!. I truly wish you the best of luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
SWEETIE YOU ASK THIS QUESTIONALREADY, ARE YOU NOT SEEKING HELP!!!! you need to speak to someone about this and tell your mom to be a mother and hear you!.!.!.!.gee wheres your parents when you need them!!!
I am 5"2 and also 110 pounds I am 31!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 5"2 and also 110 pounds I am 31!Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is absolutely ridiculous!. There is no reason why you should be forced to take gymnastics if you don't like it!. Also, weight can depend on metabolism - it is not solely dependent on how much you choose to eat!. Go to a school counselor and tell them everything you have told us here!. Maybe they can intervene!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should do things to make YOURSELF happy!.
You need to tell your Mom that you want to live your own life, and choose your own activities to do!. If she has a problem with your body or you then I would highly suggest going to a guidance counselor or talking to a friend!.
I can understand why your dressed out, and I really think you should confront your mom!. If she starts to give you more crap then I would go to a friends house for a night!.!.or go to a gudiance counselor immidiatly!.
To be treated like that is not right!.!.I hope that you get help!. ^!.^Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to tell your Mom that you want to live your own life, and choose your own activities to do!. If she has a problem with your body or you then I would highly suggest going to a guidance counselor or talking to a friend!.
I can understand why your dressed out, and I really think you should confront your mom!. If she starts to give you more crap then I would go to a friends house for a night!.!.or go to a gudiance counselor immidiatly!.
To be treated like that is not right!.!.I hope that you get help!. ^!.^Www@Answer-Health@Com
Start by telling a counselor at school!. He or she can help you talk with your parents and encourage them to allow you to ditch gymnastics!. Frankly, it sounds like gymnastics needs to end!.
Your size is IDEAL at 5'2" and 110!. Do NOT diet, regardless of what mother says!. Be absolutely sure to mention your mother's "diet" suggestion to the counselor at school!.
As a gymnast, you are extra vulnerable to the development of an eating disorder!. Sadly, ED's don't end when adolescence does!. You can be looking at a LIFETIME of misery (not to mention an early death) should your mom's recommend "diet" morph in to an eating disorder!. If your mother is too dense to realize what she's doing could damage you for a lifetime, maybe the counselor can knock some sense into her head!.
Hang in there,
~M~Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your size is IDEAL at 5'2" and 110!. Do NOT diet, regardless of what mother says!. Be absolutely sure to mention your mother's "diet" suggestion to the counselor at school!.
As a gymnast, you are extra vulnerable to the development of an eating disorder!. Sadly, ED's don't end when adolescence does!. You can be looking at a LIFETIME of misery (not to mention an early death) should your mom's recommend "diet" morph in to an eating disorder!. If your mother is too dense to realize what she's doing could damage you for a lifetime, maybe the counselor can knock some sense into her head!.
Hang in there,
~M~Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever thought about getting a tutor or doing Public school online!? Some states offer it and it is still accreditted--you still graduate with a high school diploma!. that might relieve some of your schedule stress if you cannot quit your gymnastics!. I know there are child actor/actresses who work and still get their education!. there must be a way!.!.!.maybe you can look into it or talk to your parents!? Must be something you can do!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your weight is fine for your height!.
Write your mom a letter, then talk to her!. If it's making you that unhappy, you have to let them know!. Do it in an adult way, not whining and complaining (don't know if you're like that or not), but rational and honest!.
If that doesn't work, try talking to your coach or a school counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Write your mom a letter, then talk to her!. If it's making you that unhappy, you have to let them know!. Do it in an adult way, not whining and complaining (don't know if you're like that or not), but rational and honest!.
If that doesn't work, try talking to your coach or a school counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to a counselor at your school and tell them exactly what is going on!. You shouldn't be forced to participate in a sports if you don't want to!. You are young, you should be enjoying your life and going to school to learn!. You are too young to be under that kind of stress!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds to me like you should talk to your school guidance counselor!. You are under too much pressure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok!. you and mom need to sit down and have a serious discussion!. apologize for any disrespect you may have shown her and then tell her exactly what you wrote in the question!. I am sure you do not want to quit gymnastics but there has to be a compromise somewhere!. How are your grades!? Maybe the time spent driving can be used to nap or study, whichever is better for you!. Somehow you will get past this!. If a big meet is coming up that might be the cause of the stress!. So, tell yourself you can only do so much and anything more is over your limit!. Don't eat from stress!. Eat healthy and with your exercise regimen I don't think weight should be a problem!. You are not to fat, and your coach is the one that should talk to you about correct eating!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it sounds to me that ur mom is forcing u to become something she wants but she is not living in reality!. Ur mom or parents-whatever have u on a leash trying to make u do wat u don't want to!. U DON'T NEED TO LOOSE WEIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.!.!. Anorexia!? TSST PLZ no one lieks to starve and trust its not a good feeling!. Maybe ur mom feels shes a few pounds overweight so she displaces her worries etc on u her daughter!. Or maybe ur parents don't know how hard it is on u, and for u to be going to bed at taht hour is crazy!! Maybe u should tell ur coach or lay it down for ur parents by writing it out and being firm and honest about it!. And if tehy don't want to listen then thats bad parenting!. And so i wouldfake i didn't feel well so i could catch up on otehr things or sleep for a few hours!!! Plz talk to them or a trusted adult!. :) If u do decide to become anorexic u r just tempting with fate and ur life and causeing urself some mayjor uneccessary stress and health problems!. U don't need to loose weight!!!!!! Forget wat ppl have said!. U don't have to worry about ur weight now either on top of everything else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are NOT too fat!. you are perfect!. your mom needs help, but don't tell her that!. she doens't want to hear it from you, and she needs to realize it on her own for it to actually work!. but you can take solace in knowing that your mom has issues and she's just trying to place them on you!.
how about this!? in the mean time, try proposing to your mom/coach that you are really stressed out, and not enjoying school and gymnastics as much!. ask them if you can practice an hour less every day, and tell them you'll also go to bed an hour earlier!. you'll feel better!.
and you should consider taking "every other friday" off, or something like that!. it would help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how about this!? in the mean time, try proposing to your mom/coach that you are really stressed out, and not enjoying school and gymnastics as much!. ask them if you can practice an hour less every day, and tell them you'll also go to bed an hour earlier!. you'll feel better!.
and you should consider taking "every other friday" off, or something like that!. it would help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO DO NOT GO ANOREXIC!!!! ANOREXIA IS AN ILLNESS THAT SCREWS WITH YOUR MIND FOR LIFE!!!!!! i HAD ANOREXIA AT 11!.!.!.!.!.I AM 3 DAYS AWAY FROM 20!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR MOM AND TELL HER LIKE IT IS AND SEE A COUNSELOR AT SCHOOL AND TELL THEM YOU FEEL PUSHED AND YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT ANOREXIA!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.THEY WILL HELP!.Www@Answer-Health@Com