My life is messed up?!
Question: My life is messed up!?
I'm a male that is married so young and i married at age 20!. I am in a low-college and i'm doing bad in it!. I have lots of money due because i spend it all in the wedding and stuff!. My life is messed up and i got stress 24/7!. I feel like dieing living this pain and i keep crying to myself what am i gonna do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i kind of feel like u do but worse, my mom is dying from brain cancer, my son just comitted suicide a little less than a month, i just got laid off 3 months ago, and i owe 25,000 dollars in credit card bills!. Plus i got a divorce just last year and am paying that off!. But im hanging in there im FDNY and hopefullly being transfered to a different house!. I've pretty much lost everything i earned, i married young too and made it so can uWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hang in there!.!.!.it will get better, it always does!. Turn to God! He will help you through!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're going to relax, and stay strong!. Maybe you did marry to early, but you probably did it out of love!. Talk to your wife about how you feel, shes there to give you support!. Relax, put all the negative on hold and think positive, go to school part time, and get a job!. Hold off on having kids until your financially and emotionally stable!. Stay close to your family and friends because they can help you get through this tough stage in your life!. I understand what your going through, but just realize you're not alone hun!.
Take good care of yourself and your wife!. Be the man!.
God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com
Take good care of yourself and your wife!. Be the man!.
God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com
Take a good look at what you want and what makes you happy!. You didn't mention any children, so you aren't obligated in that way!. Find things you love, try to fill that hole in your life!. Try to be true to your wife if you can, but if you aren't happy you aren't going to be able to make other people happy!. There's a lot to life!. You're in college- you already have an opportunity most people in the world don't!. You can take a break from college if you need to, but if I was you, I would try to finish!. Cheer up! People love you, you're married!. I love you! It'll be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Does your spouse know that you are so stressed!? If not, maybe you should talk to her!. Second, if you don't have any children yet, please don't!. Not now!.
Do you have parents that you could talk to or even could help with your financial difficulties!?
Does your spouse work, is she helpful, understanding!. Are you both still in love!?
How long have you been married!? do you go to church and would you think talking to your priest or minister would be helpful!?
Talk to the people that you know care about you first!.
Remember to try to go through your problems one at a time and try to come up with some ways that would help you out ie: How could you make your payments easier on you or get lower monthly payments!? Write them down if it helps, and write a few answers for each question!. In this way, you can start to get organized and feel some empowerment for your life!. Right now, you are going in circles not knowing what to do!. We all need help sometimes!. You don't say how old you are now!. But no matter, you still have many years that really can be great!. We all have bumps in the road that seem insurmountable!.
Please try those closest to you and then if need be, talk to a professional if you have the insurance of course : )
Take it easy, you'll be OK!.
May God bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you have parents that you could talk to or even could help with your financial difficulties!?
Does your spouse work, is she helpful, understanding!. Are you both still in love!?
How long have you been married!? do you go to church and would you think talking to your priest or minister would be helpful!?
Talk to the people that you know care about you first!.
Remember to try to go through your problems one at a time and try to come up with some ways that would help you out ie: How could you make your payments easier on you or get lower monthly payments!? Write them down if it helps, and write a few answers for each question!. In this way, you can start to get organized and feel some empowerment for your life!. Right now, you are going in circles not knowing what to do!. We all need help sometimes!. You don't say how old you are now!. But no matter, you still have many years that really can be great!. We all have bumps in the road that seem insurmountable!.
Please try those closest to you and then if need be, talk to a professional if you have the insurance of course : )
Take it easy, you'll be OK!.
May God bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com