I've Reached My Breaking Point with my TORTURING Tutor.?!
Question: I've Reached My Breaking Point with my TORTURING Tutor!.!?
As an aisian myself, asian families expect their children to get an A on math or everything!. I have a math teacher who is torturing me that I've had a breaking point!. When I get just one question wrong, she would hamiluate (spelling) me with the question saying your dumb and saying its so easy that anyone can get it right! (HELLO you got the answer key!!) Sometimes she would make me get on the mirror and say these weird words that I cannot even understand!! I tried to tell my parents but they still expect me to get an A on math!. I cry myelf to sleep and sometimes it gets so bad that I would think of commiting suicide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No one, and I mean no one!.!.!. has the "right" to treat you that way!. (I'm talking about making you stand in the mirror!.)
Weak "people" tell other people they are "dumb"!.
Ya, your teacher has got some real problems and they're not about you!.
You need to take action to "defend" yourself!. (It doesn't seem like you're old enough, or strong enough, yet, to mentally figure out this person is the one with problems and to mentally/emtionally defend yourself!.!.!.) So, you're next best, bet!.!. is to pull one of your parents aside, the one you feel "safest" with, (probably your mother, right!?) without arguing or fighting!.!. or crying, and simply say, in a "matter of fact way" that you've got a friend that a teacher is degrading!. Tell them your story, like it's not you!.!. and she how she reacts!. If she (your mom) seems "shocked" then lower the boom and tell her it's you and your teacher!. Even in "asian" families, mama is the "heart"!. She'll get your dad to "move"!.
That's your best bet!.!. You are their child and they love you!.!. and if you can explain what's going on, without it turning into a "fight"!.!. They'll defend you!.
That doesn't work, go to your school counciler!.
Trust me, your tutor has got some "problems" and in my opinion, shouldn't be allowed to teach!.
It's not you!
(That doesn't get you off the hook for needing to learn your math!. Just means you need someone else, more stable, and more mature to teach you!.)
Best wishes!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Weak "people" tell other people they are "dumb"!.
Ya, your teacher has got some real problems and they're not about you!.
You need to take action to "defend" yourself!. (It doesn't seem like you're old enough, or strong enough, yet, to mentally figure out this person is the one with problems and to mentally/emtionally defend yourself!.!.!.) So, you're next best, bet!.!. is to pull one of your parents aside, the one you feel "safest" with, (probably your mother, right!?) without arguing or fighting!.!. or crying, and simply say, in a "matter of fact way" that you've got a friend that a teacher is degrading!. Tell them your story, like it's not you!.!. and she how she reacts!. If she (your mom) seems "shocked" then lower the boom and tell her it's you and your teacher!. Even in "asian" families, mama is the "heart"!. She'll get your dad to "move"!.
That's your best bet!.!. You are their child and they love you!.!. and if you can explain what's going on, without it turning into a "fight"!.!. They'll defend you!.
That doesn't work, go to your school counciler!.
Trust me, your tutor has got some "problems" and in my opinion, shouldn't be allowed to teach!.
It's not you!
(That doesn't get you off the hook for needing to learn your math!. Just means you need someone else, more stable, and more mature to teach you!.)
Best wishes!Www@Answer-Health@Com
See a school counselor and talk to the principal!. A teacher should not be treating you like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can sort of understand your plight!. Both of my parents were teachers and getting a "B" was equal to failing!. There are some subjects that people just don't get!. It's not because they are stupid, it's just the one thing they don't excel at!. Tell your parents that you want to get an "A" in math, but that you want to see another tutor!. Talk to your counselor at school and maybe he/she can give you the names of tutors who will actually help you, rather than hurt you and make you hate math even more than you already do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your school counselor about this!.
Your parents will listen better to a school authority figure than they will to you!.
This tutor should be fired - he's abusing you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your parents will listen better to a school authority figure than they will to you!.
This tutor should be fired - he's abusing you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tutor is bad
Talk to principal/conselour
My parents never listen to me
Your parents are unreasonable and need a reality check
If this type of thign makes you snap they will be to blame
Just in case leave a list of things as your dying testimonyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to principal/conselour
My parents never listen to me
Your parents are unreasonable and need a reality check
If this type of thign makes you snap they will be to blame
Just in case leave a list of things as your dying testimonyWww@Answer-Health@Com
whats the question babe everyone has sucky teachers suck it up!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com