I just dont think i want to live anymore?!
Question: I just dont think i want to live anymore!?
i am so unhappy in my life!. there is nothing good that happens - just a lot of bad!. i have reached out to my family and friends because i know something is not right with me, but all they do is ignore me so i get worse!. i just want to be happy!. i know bad stuff happens to ppl all the time, but it always happen to me!. now one thing that i never thought was a big deal has come back to haunt me and now my life - everything that ive worked for, is over!. no one understands that im in the much pain!. i really dont think they would care if i died, but regardless i wouldnt be in such emotional pain anymore!. i dont know what to go!. im just a waste of existence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I know how hard things can get when you're feeling like this!. Everyone gets down sometimes and feels like they'd be better off giving up, that everything would be easier that way!. First of all, you need to change your outlook on life!. The more you tell yourself that everything is going wrong, the more it will!. So try to think positively - know that you have family and friends that love you, even in the times when it seems like they don't!. You have to realise that you have a future ahead of you, and your life will be whatever you make it!. Nothing in life will ever be perfect, and if it is, it won't be for long!. Everyone has their own problems and everyone gets knocked back from time to time!. But it's the people who don't give in, get back up and do something about it who are the happiest!. The only person who can really stop yourself feeling the way you do is yourself!. Sure, a doctor/therapist can help and the support of family and friends may make it a lot easier but when it comes down to it, it's your mind and your attitude making you feel the way you do!. There's lots of things you can do - make new friends, try new things and take positive actions to make your life generally better!. If something is bothering you so much you feel like you don't want to live anymore, you have to have the will power to make it right!. I'm not saying it's easy because getting out of depression for me was very hard!. Once you realise that you can change everything around you to make you feel differently, you'll be okay!. Take steps to improve your life and remember that nothing is ever going to be perfect - that's life!. Our lives are all about a series of challenges we have to overcome, and you'll be truly happy at the end of it!. If you feel it'll help you, go to your doctor and they can offer you different counselling/medication to help you!. But I feel you can do this - you sound like you really want to get your life sorted!. Your friends and family would miss you greatly if you committed suicide, and this could lead to guilt and depression for them as well!. You really need to know that you can change things, and go out there and do it!. Just think positively and you'll realise nothing is as bad as it seems!. Good luck, I really hope you can overcome this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a Boyfriend/Girlfriend to take all this stuff off your mind tbh!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop blaming everyone else for your failure and realize that good just doesn't 'happen', you have to put in a little effort!. Even the little things can turn you around, so don't believe that unless something great & magical happens you're a waste of space!. And if you do believe that then I advise counseling or a therapist, because they won't ignore you since you are paying them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to find someone who will listen!. I think your family don't know how detacted you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
look!! i can feel you cuz u nd me have same feelings ,,so i just wanna u to sit 4 amoment then ask ur self ,,,,,why most of poeple are happy!? and i am not !?is it my fults!?blv me u r becming sad cuz u made issue so big ,,,make it easy then it will be easy ,,,or u can contact me then we will work it out,,,,Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes friends and family do not understand how bad you are feeling!.
You need to talk to a professional about this!.
Your family doctor is a good place to start, or if you are still in school you should talk to your counselor!.
Nobody deserves to feel so bad!.
Last year when I was really bad I had only one friend to back me up, and that's all I needed to help me till I got my prescription and counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk to a professional about this!.
Your family doctor is a good place to start, or if you are still in school you should talk to your counselor!.
Nobody deserves to feel so bad!.
Last year when I was really bad I had only one friend to back me up, and that's all I needed to help me till I got my prescription and counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing happens by coincidence and even though I came here to look for a health related question I noticed your message right away and wanted to let you know that I read it and I will pray for you!.
I feel very deeply for your pain, I know how you must be feeling to want to write something so personal in such a public forum!. Yes, you should probably see some kind of professional help but for the time being I want you to know that no matter how shitty things are, every day is a another day to make things better and another day to try again!.
There IS light at the end of your seemingly endless and black tunnel and I want to assure you that someone loves you!. You may not feel like it at this moment but your family and friends would greatly miss you should you not be in their lives!. If you need new family and friends then try and get out and become someone's new family and friend, volunteer to help someone less fortunate than you and I can promise you my friend that as crappy as your life may be at this second, someone else's is even worse!.
Everything you have worked for is NOT over, if you don't let it!. We all make mistakes and if people can't understand that then screw them!. Only YOU can change your life, state of mind and attitude, it's hard but it's worth it!.
I am not speaking out my *** either, I have been where you have been and I tried to end it all but discovered that any shitty day on this side of the "six feet under" is better than than any good day six feet under!. And if you find that hard to believe, become a volunteer at a hospice and you will many people who would gladly trade their lives for yours as tangled as it might be just to have one more chance at life!.
Good luck to you, you can make it if YOU want to!.!.!.!.it's not easy it but it's worth it!. I wish I was there to give you a big hug!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel very deeply for your pain, I know how you must be feeling to want to write something so personal in such a public forum!. Yes, you should probably see some kind of professional help but for the time being I want you to know that no matter how shitty things are, every day is a another day to make things better and another day to try again!.
There IS light at the end of your seemingly endless and black tunnel and I want to assure you that someone loves you!. You may not feel like it at this moment but your family and friends would greatly miss you should you not be in their lives!. If you need new family and friends then try and get out and become someone's new family and friend, volunteer to help someone less fortunate than you and I can promise you my friend that as crappy as your life may be at this second, someone else's is even worse!.
Everything you have worked for is NOT over, if you don't let it!. We all make mistakes and if people can't understand that then screw them!. Only YOU can change your life, state of mind and attitude, it's hard but it's worth it!.
I am not speaking out my *** either, I have been where you have been and I tried to end it all but discovered that any shitty day on this side of the "six feet under" is better than than any good day six feet under!. And if you find that hard to believe, become a volunteer at a hospice and you will many people who would gladly trade their lives for yours as tangled as it might be just to have one more chance at life!.
Good luck to you, you can make it if YOU want to!.!.!.!.it's not easy it but it's worth it!. I wish I was there to give you a big hug!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I will be praying for you!.
Depression IS treatable!. Start by seeking a highly qualified psychologist!. Next, consider medication!.
Life looks terribly bleak when you are in the throws of depression!.
I am here to tell you that there IS an end to it!.!.!.that there ARE better days ahead, and that you ARE going to get there!.
Hang in there,
~M~Www@Answer-Health@Com
Depression IS treatable!. Start by seeking a highly qualified psychologist!. Next, consider medication!.
Life looks terribly bleak when you are in the throws of depression!.
I am here to tell you that there IS an end to it!.!.!.that there ARE better days ahead, and that you ARE going to get there!.
Hang in there,
~M~Www@Answer-Health@Com
from personal experience,
not wanting to live anymore is one of the hardest cycles to break!.
i was feeling that that from about 10-14 years old!.
only just now am i starting to enjoy life!.
i saw a school counciler,i avoided the direct issue,but just talking to someone who does not judge you makes you slightly calmer!.
i never told my family about how i felt!.i think i only ever told one friend!.
your right to think that bad things happen to people all the time!.because they do!.
and it just so happens that they pick on you more than other people!.
but you need to try and turn your thinking around!.
this can take a while,but if you stick at it,it can improve your life!.
if something crap happens to you,look at the situation!.
if someones died,see the good in their life!.if youve failed a test,think about what you done that was good,and what you can do to improve!.
see everyday as something that you can cope with,no matter what!.
there will always be some kind of good to come from a bad situation!.
if possible,look around on the internet for free councilling near you,or some helplines you can phone or email!.
i found that these worked great,especially the samaritans!.
it seems that your crying out for help,and your seeing taking your own life as a way of getting it!.
last week a 19 year old who lived near a relative,hung himself in the hope that someone would find him before he died!.
they didnt!.
you dont think your family would care if you died!?
they would!.they would have to live with the guilt and the sadnedd for the rest of their lives,and you would have ruined more than your own too!.
there is so much in the world to experience,and you need to be alive to experience everything!.
i look at it this way,i'll die one day,so i'll just way!.somethig good will have to happen in the remaining time i have left!.
plus theres dying kids out there who would love another day!.
please go and talk to a counciller,doctor,or helpline!.
try not to put the issues to the back of your mind and directly confront them!.
write a diary and forget aout everything thats in there!.
life is for living!.
not taking!.
i hope you get through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
not wanting to live anymore is one of the hardest cycles to break!.
i was feeling that that from about 10-14 years old!.
only just now am i starting to enjoy life!.
i saw a school counciler,i avoided the direct issue,but just talking to someone who does not judge you makes you slightly calmer!.
i never told my family about how i felt!.i think i only ever told one friend!.
your right to think that bad things happen to people all the time!.because they do!.
and it just so happens that they pick on you more than other people!.
but you need to try and turn your thinking around!.
this can take a while,but if you stick at it,it can improve your life!.
if something crap happens to you,look at the situation!.
if someones died,see the good in their life!.if youve failed a test,think about what you done that was good,and what you can do to improve!.
see everyday as something that you can cope with,no matter what!.
there will always be some kind of good to come from a bad situation!.
if possible,look around on the internet for free councilling near you,or some helplines you can phone or email!.
i found that these worked great,especially the samaritans!.
it seems that your crying out for help,and your seeing taking your own life as a way of getting it!.
last week a 19 year old who lived near a relative,hung himself in the hope that someone would find him before he died!.
they didnt!.
you dont think your family would care if you died!?
they would!.they would have to live with the guilt and the sadnedd for the rest of their lives,and you would have ruined more than your own too!.
there is so much in the world to experience,and you need to be alive to experience everything!.
i look at it this way,i'll die one day,so i'll just way!.somethig good will have to happen in the remaining time i have left!.
plus theres dying kids out there who would love another day!.
please go and talk to a counciller,doctor,or helpline!.
try not to put the issues to the back of your mind and directly confront them!.
write a diary and forget aout everything thats in there!.
life is for living!.
not taking!.
i hope you get through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you are maybe tired of the same old routine!. You should maybe join a club/social/church group or get a hobby!. You will feel alot better!.
Like you, I feel like i've been going through an period of prolonged rejection and bad luck!. It's strange, I think God is trying to teach me a hard lesson in rejection :) You just have to smile, even when you're sad, pick yourself and keep on movin' :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Like you, I feel like i've been going through an period of prolonged rejection and bad luck!. It's strange, I think God is trying to teach me a hard lesson in rejection :) You just have to smile, even when you're sad, pick yourself and keep on movin' :)Www@Answer-Health@Com