I can never get over this death of my loved one!!!?!
Question: I can never get over this death of my loved one!!!!?
I can't live any more!. I cry and cry every time I see pictures of my grand-fatjer!. My parents don't understand!. But people are callinrg me crazy!. I light candles on fire and then I pray to him!. I want him to come back!. I pray to God every day to let my grand-father not die!. He died over a freaking banana!. It went down the wrong tube!. I wanted to sue the nurseying home!. They killed him!. Giving him a non-mushy banana!. THEY KILLED HIM!!!! And I still want to sue them!. He died in 3rd grade!. 3rd grade!. It hurts for me to talk about it!. I asked a questions like this yesterday!. Those were really nice answers!. But they weren't the perfect ones!. Please some one use things that happened to them and tell everyone what you went to that made the people died!. And how you felt!. I'm crying writing this message!. Some one has to have the best answer that I've ever seen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I read your last question and you are right there were some very beautiful answers that touched my heart!.
But they have not reached you so now I will be harsher!.
I am sorry for your loss but you are not alone!. Many people in the world have lost loved ones and some have lost all their loved ones!. You still have your parents and probably alot of other people who care about you too!.
You are denying those people time with you and you are denying yourself time with them!. Time you will never have back! Your grandfather would not like you to waste your life when you are so young!. Everything you are going through now you may be able to use to help others!.
Imagine the situation was reversed and you had died, would you want your Grandfather to be sad!?
One day you may have a grand daughter who you can bring as much joy to as your grandfather has brought to you!. You must accept that it was his time to go, if not how it happened some other way would have intervened!. Hold to the memory that he will always be perfect to you and make him proud as you grow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But they have not reached you so now I will be harsher!.
I am sorry for your loss but you are not alone!. Many people in the world have lost loved ones and some have lost all their loved ones!. You still have your parents and probably alot of other people who care about you too!.
You are denying those people time with you and you are denying yourself time with them!. Time you will never have back! Your grandfather would not like you to waste your life when you are so young!. Everything you are going through now you may be able to use to help others!.
Imagine the situation was reversed and you had died, would you want your Grandfather to be sad!?
One day you may have a grand daughter who you can bring as much joy to as your grandfather has brought to you!. You must accept that it was his time to go, if not how it happened some other way would have intervened!. Hold to the memory that he will always be perfect to you and make him proud as you grow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ill just copy it its easyer
ive been to 4funerals='[
i have terrible mood swings,basically no confidence, find it
hard to concentrate, i self harm and im VERY shy
BUT i am getting better!
i do kick boxing 3times a week so i take my anger and feelings out there(punch bags ect) and my depressions getting better and im getting more confident i DO really recomand some sort of sport IT DOES HELP!!
and ive left out lots of stuff so u don't die of boredom
hope we both get better
Gunner O!.o
EDIT:ive been to 3 or 4 therapists they don't really work=[
EDIT: this is what i told someone else with your problem=]
well most of my depression comes from when my dog died(='[) and being bullyed but now i feel like i have no strength to go through that again(i tried sucide twice around then='[) and i still do i feel im not strong enough to pull throught it again if you get what i mean
ive been deprested for about 1 1/2 years now and i it feel like im falling and keep getting up again i suffer from anger problems and low confedince sometimes ill feel REALLY sad and some other times ill feel happyish but mostly the opposite
i think im starting to get over my depression and i used to self harm too but ive been 5 day without so far YAY!! i do kick boxing to help with my depression, anger and self harm
i have mood swings, loss of interest in everything,I'm tired all of the time my sleep and diet are terrible I just cant concentrate, I have terrible memory DON'T TRY MEDICATION it will not work
sorry its long=]
Gunner O!.o
EDIT:btw 4funerls 2FAMILY and 2FRIENDS
family:granddad and grandma(i was REALLY depressed and sucidel when they died) and i used to believe in god and i prayed and prayed but there condition just got worse i don't beileve anymore
it would be better if i did not to go into details about my friends if you dont mind='[Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive been to 4funerals='[
i have terrible mood swings,basically no confidence, find it
hard to concentrate, i self harm and im VERY shy
BUT i am getting better!
i do kick boxing 3times a week so i take my anger and feelings out there(punch bags ect) and my depressions getting better and im getting more confident i DO really recomand some sort of sport IT DOES HELP!!
and ive left out lots of stuff so u don't die of boredom
hope we both get better
Gunner O!.o
EDIT:ive been to 3 or 4 therapists they don't really work=[
EDIT: this is what i told someone else with your problem=]
well most of my depression comes from when my dog died(='[) and being bullyed but now i feel like i have no strength to go through that again(i tried sucide twice around then='[) and i still do i feel im not strong enough to pull throught it again if you get what i mean
ive been deprested for about 1 1/2 years now and i it feel like im falling and keep getting up again i suffer from anger problems and low confedince sometimes ill feel REALLY sad and some other times ill feel happyish but mostly the opposite
i think im starting to get over my depression and i used to self harm too but ive been 5 day without so far YAY!! i do kick boxing to help with my depression, anger and self harm
i have mood swings, loss of interest in everything,I'm tired all of the time my sleep and diet are terrible I just cant concentrate, I have terrible memory DON'T TRY MEDICATION it will not work
sorry its long=]
Gunner O!.o
EDIT:btw 4funerls 2FAMILY and 2FRIENDS
family:granddad and grandma(i was REALLY depressed and sucidel when they died) and i used to believe in god and i prayed and prayed but there condition just got worse i don't beileve anymore
it would be better if i did not to go into details about my friends if you dont mind='[Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hello Klara,
You are clearly experiencing a lot of pain!. It also sounds as if you are really angry!. If you feel that nobody understands, have a word with the doctor!. Grief, and all the anger that can go with it, is difficult enough, but it is important to sort out whether you are depressed too!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
You are clearly experiencing a lot of pain!. It also sounds as if you are really angry!. If you feel that nobody understands, have a word with the doctor!. Grief, and all the anger that can go with it, is difficult enough, but it is important to sort out whether you are depressed too!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com