I really don't know how to carry on?!
Question: I really don't know how to carry on!?
There's always been something not quite right about me!. I don't know how, there just always has!. About two years ago I started cutting myself a lot and attempted suicide twice, then I finally got over that and thought I'd got rid of depression!. Around 7 months ago I started drinking and smoking and taking ecstasy and smoking weed!. I got in a lot of trouble with school and stopped, but I still smoke cigarettes when I can!. Lately I've been feeling really depressed again, like there's nothing for me to look forward to and my life isn't going anywhere!. I really like this guy, he used to be a close friend, but with everything I've gone through we've drifted apart and I just can't get over him!. I'm scared I'll do something stupid - but I don't know!. I just can't stand the way I'm feeling!. The ironic thing is I've been giving others advice on depression and know exactly what I need to do but I'm far too stubborn and scared to do what I know is right!. Please help me, pray for me, anything!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You need to try and rebuild this friendship since it is important and also, you need to find things that are worth living for!.
If one of your friends had said all that you have written to you, what would you tell them!? Please, follow the advice that you have admitted to knowing how to give!.
It's hard, there's no denying that, and doing the work to pull yourself out of the depression can be frightening, but it's no fun being depressed especiall when you know you don't want it any more!.
Seek some counselling if you need to and find out what has pulled you to feeling this way!. Chances are that it is just hormonal because of your age but it has been amplified by your experiences!.
I noticed that you asked for us to pray for you, but you can pray for you too, and that might help!.
Take care xWww@Answer-Health@Com
If one of your friends had said all that you have written to you, what would you tell them!? Please, follow the advice that you have admitted to knowing how to give!.
It's hard, there's no denying that, and doing the work to pull yourself out of the depression can be frightening, but it's no fun being depressed especiall when you know you don't want it any more!.
Seek some counselling if you need to and find out what has pulled you to feeling this way!. Chances are that it is just hormonal because of your age but it has been amplified by your experiences!.
I noticed that you asked for us to pray for you, but you can pray for you too, and that might help!.
Take care xWww@Answer-Health@Com
at 15 i was mental lol!. my advice is go and see your GP and see if they will refer you on to someone who will help you work through your issuesWww@Answer-Health@Com
First, you cant help who you like so if you've fallen for someone it doesnt matter how old you are!. But you do need to put him on the back burner for now!. You need to think about yourself!. I am the same in I give advice but I dont take my own!. You should deffinitly go to a therapist and maybe a psychiatrist!. If you feel really suicidal then you should go to the emergency deparment!. You have to stop caring what anyone thinks and just do it for yourself!. And the cigg thing can be ignored for right now!. There not completely illegal right now and if your haveing mental problems they're the least of your problems right now!. Weeds not that bad but it leads to other things!.!.!.if you are really hooked you might want to consider rehab!. It's not that bad!.!.!.I've been a couple times!. And alcohol can become a BIG problem!. Alcohol can ruin lifes fast and easily!. It's not fun!. So my suggestion would be to get help as soon as possible even if you dont think you need to!. You should talk to a therapist and maybe medicine will help!. You can talk to me if you would like!.!.!.my AIM is SomethingReal08!. I'm a good listener and I've been through alot in my 19 years of life!. I am also a cutter so I know how you feel!. That sounds so cliche but it's true!. You can also message me if you'd like!. Good luck and hope to hear from you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to one of your friends you helped!. ask them to give you advice similar to what you give them!. then follow that advice, it hopefully should be easier if it comes from someone else!. I'm sorry you feel this way, and i hope you get over it soon!. i am not religious but try and find the happiness in ur lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
talk to some one, you can get free conselling at schoolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Prayers you've got right now from me!. For yourself, tell your doctor at your next check up!.
It doesn't matter what other people think about what you should be feeling!. You may be focusing on the wrong things, but being told that won't help you focus on the right things!.
You need professional help!. In my profession people are scared to get help too, because they think they will lose their job or their security clearances!. So these problems affect adults too!. But nowadays, those of us who are higher ranking see that when our troops get help when they need it, they are better able to stay in their jobs!. That is good for them and the military!.
Your parents and doctors should feel the same way!. when you get the help you need, you will be better able to deal with life, school, friends and boyfriends!. This will help you be better able to contribute to society and return your parent's love!. You cannot get/give hugs in the grave!.
Good luck, God bless!.
Edit - do not believe you cannot help who you like!. We all choose who we like and love!. It is just that we do it so unconsciously if feels like it falls on us from the sky!. You should seriously explore this idea!. It gives you much more power and control over you life!. You meet someone, something interests you about him, you choose to meet him again, more interest, he begins to feel the same, more meetings etc!. etc!. each step along the way is a choice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't matter what other people think about what you should be feeling!. You may be focusing on the wrong things, but being told that won't help you focus on the right things!.
You need professional help!. In my profession people are scared to get help too, because they think they will lose their job or their security clearances!. So these problems affect adults too!. But nowadays, those of us who are higher ranking see that when our troops get help when they need it, they are better able to stay in their jobs!. That is good for them and the military!.
Your parents and doctors should feel the same way!. when you get the help you need, you will be better able to deal with life, school, friends and boyfriends!. This will help you be better able to contribute to society and return your parent's love!. You cannot get/give hugs in the grave!.
Good luck, God bless!.
Edit - do not believe you cannot help who you like!. We all choose who we like and love!. It is just that we do it so unconsciously if feels like it falls on us from the sky!. You should seriously explore this idea!. It gives you much more power and control over you life!. You meet someone, something interests you about him, you choose to meet him again, more interest, he begins to feel the same, more meetings etc!. etc!. each step along the way is a choice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to someone you know you can trust!. !. !.I can tell you are going through a hard time right now!.
Weed and ecstasy and smoking is NOT the answer, BTW!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Weed and ecstasy and smoking is NOT the answer, BTW!.Www@Answer-Health@Com