How can i Be happy?!
Question: How can i Be happy!?
Im sooo sad
i have no friends anymore
and i never feel loved
all my dreams are really happy and great and i wake up in this hellhole
i want to be happy again
i think about killing myself all the time
but would never do it
i just want to be happy
life has always been hard
and now my friends won't talk to me
and they were all i had
they started hating me because i was prettier than all of them
and they call me a slut now
when i was never one and never did anything to try to look better than them
i havent done anything and now they never call me or hang out
its the most depressing life ever
im in 10th grade
and i want to move soo bad
the only good thing in my life is dance
but i can't be at my studio
how can i be happy !?
how can i get my friends to like me !?
how can i get the guy i love to like me !?
how can i stay positive !?
please i need comfort that things will turn around i am crying right now :(
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i have no friends anymore
and i never feel loved
all my dreams are really happy and great and i wake up in this hellhole
i want to be happy again
i think about killing myself all the time
but would never do it
i just want to be happy
life has always been hard
and now my friends won't talk to me
and they were all i had
they started hating me because i was prettier than all of them
and they call me a slut now
when i was never one and never did anything to try to look better than them
i havent done anything and now they never call me or hang out
its the most depressing life ever
im in 10th grade
and i want to move soo bad
the only good thing in my life is dance
but i can't be at my studio
how can i be happy !?
how can i get my friends to like me !?
how can i get the guy i love to like me !?
how can i stay positive !?
please i need comfort that things will turn around i am crying right now :(
help meWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
listen what you have to do is easy! the only question is are you willing to let go of the past to have a better future!. If that is truly why your friends stop talking to you, then they were never true friends!. But so that you know you did what you could to keep your relationship with them then all you have to do is talk to them, and see why it is they wont talk to you and resolve the problem if you can, if not because it's something about yourself you cant change, then try and find new friends, you said you like dance, Well then try and connect with people who love that too! =) that is how i met some of my friends who i know go out with almost every weekend!. =) Look you are young still and it is in the time when you are in high school that you start to find out who you are and/or who you want to be, and your friends will change, people you thought would never talk to you would, but it is all in how you reflect your image towards them, if you feel truly confident in yourseld it will show, if you feel shy it will show, if you feel happy that day, it will also show, so try and keep a positive attitude about everything, like your friends!. If they never want to speak to you again, that's fine, it's their loss, besides why do you need people like that to be around you and make your life a hellhole!. =) hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you love dance than you should try a way to incorporate it into your day everyday even if it's not at the studio!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First, you have to love yourself, before you worry what others are thinking about you!. When you feel positive about yourself, then you will not let negative things get you down!.
Think about happy thoughts, at least your are healthy, i assume, so that is one positive thing you could think about!.
Some people are in a worse position health wise, and would love to trade places with you!.
If your friends don't like you, then get a different group of friends, you cannot force someone to like you!. They have to accept your strengths and your weakness, if they are true friends!.
You can get the guys you care about to like you, by changing your negative thoughts and bring positive thoughts to yourself!. Don't beg them to like you, it is either they do or they don't!. If they can't accept you for who you are, then hopefully, someone else will come along, who is a true friend, and not an artificial friend!.
You can stay positive by being around family members who can guide you and help you to get over negative thoughts!. Tell them, that you have suicide thoughts, and perhaps they can take you to your GP and they can let you get professional help!. Don't feel awkward doing this, that is what family is for!. You are young and you just need some counselling and structure in your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Think about happy thoughts, at least your are healthy, i assume, so that is one positive thing you could think about!.
Some people are in a worse position health wise, and would love to trade places with you!.
If your friends don't like you, then get a different group of friends, you cannot force someone to like you!. They have to accept your strengths and your weakness, if they are true friends!.
You can get the guys you care about to like you, by changing your negative thoughts and bring positive thoughts to yourself!. Don't beg them to like you, it is either they do or they don't!. If they can't accept you for who you are, then hopefully, someone else will come along, who is a true friend, and not an artificial friend!.
You can stay positive by being around family members who can guide you and help you to get over negative thoughts!. Tell them, that you have suicide thoughts, and perhaps they can take you to your GP and they can let you get professional help!. Don't feel awkward doing this, that is what family is for!. You are young and you just need some counselling and structure in your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com