How can i move on with my life??? plz help?!
Question: How can i move on with my life!?!?!? plz help!?
Im 20yr old male, in school i dated a girl who i now know was the one girl i want to be with, just after i left school yr10 we broke up and about 6 months after she started dating another guy who shes been with ever since, like 2!.5 years!.!.!.!.and no matter what i do i cant let her go and move on with my life, i'd do anything to have her back ANYTHING, but i cant and i just want the pain of not having her to go!.!.!.!.!.!. i want to move on and be happy, how can i achieve this!? at the same time i dont want to let her go because deep down i know where meant to be together, what should i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I can feel with you on this!. I was your age (25 yrs ago) I was in love with someone and I even moved out to England and we lived together!.!.!.and I thought it would last forever and it didn't!.!.!.!.I felt really bad and I dreamt about him for a long time and whatever anyone says it's never easy to forget a love one believes is just right but as you say one has to move on!.!. when I was in the situation you are in now, I could not see it happen either but in time one can get over it!.!.!.!. one just has to stop the contact and try to find other things to occupy ones mind!. Just being together with people doing something useful!.!.!. or joining a team!.!.!. to get out of that depression and misery of thinking!.!.!.what would have been if this had worked out!.!.!.At least you broke off the relationship and she did not run straight away and start another!.!. she waited 6 months and I guess she wants to stay with him because she took her time!.!. she did not rush into a relationship just for the sake of finding someone!.!.!. and they have been together for over 2 years now!.!.So you have to assume she is happy!.!. she was happy with you also but that ended and there's just no going back so you have to let go of the idea that she was the only one for you!.!. She was meant for you to maybe be your first real love and one does never forget a first love but not too often does one marry a first love!.!.!.For me time has moved after that!.!.!. I met someone else and he is British also but we live in Canada and have been married for 20 years this May and one day you will meet a girl!.!. who you will come to love and it will last!.!.!.and you will stay together because we all learn a lot from our relationships!.!. not just the heartache and the pain, we also learn important things!.!.!.!. Therefore seeing your story from my perspective I know you will get over it and you will find real love again!.!.!. you just have to be positive and look forward to happy times!.!. and when you let go of the idea about this relationship then you are ready to go and look for someone nice whom you grow to love and who shares your feelings and one day you will be 45 like me and you will have been married at least 15 years!.!.!.and you will always remember your first love but you will love the one you are with!.!.!.the one you meet and the one you stay with xxx
Good luck xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
you need to see a counselor and talk about why you will not let go!. Other peoples choices we cannot control and it is her choice to be with this other 'guy'!. Find out why you are having trouble with this and set your horizons on self discovery, When you have figured out why you are obsessing you can make a change inside yourself!. this seems to be so distracting and painful yet you really do have a choice as if to continue on like this or move on!. Seek professional help!. There is no shame in that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
like the saying goes, if its meant to be, it will be!
im a 21 yr old female in similar situation, well, kinda!.!.!.!.me and the guy still talk on a daily basis and cant seem to fully let eachother go!.!.!.!.!.anyway, she has decided (for the time being) that she wants to move on and try other things (people)!.!.!.!.my advice, is let her, and be happy for her!.!.!.! its hella hard to get over someone you love but believe, me, if its meant to be with that one chick, it will happen, it may not be tomorrow, or next month, it may be years, but she'll come back if its for sure (God works in mysterious ways) -!.!.!.im definantly not the rightious/100% sin-free Christian, but if i know one thing, its that! !.!.!.!.!.
u know, kinda like they say, everything happens for a reason!.!.!.!.you dont see it now, but its for the best to let her go for now!.!.!.!.!.
(if at all possible, move!!.!.!.out of the city, or state, but move!.!.!.
the best way to get over someone
is to completely!.!.!.!.!.!.COM-PLETE-LY remove them from your life in every way!!!!
well!.!.!.!.those are my thoughts! hope it helps, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
im a 21 yr old female in similar situation, well, kinda!.!.!.!.me and the guy still talk on a daily basis and cant seem to fully let eachother go!.!.!.!.!.anyway, she has decided (for the time being) that she wants to move on and try other things (people)!.!.!.!.my advice, is let her, and be happy for her!.!.!.! its hella hard to get over someone you love but believe, me, if its meant to be with that one chick, it will happen, it may not be tomorrow, or next month, it may be years, but she'll come back if its for sure (God works in mysterious ways) -!.!.!.im definantly not the rightious/100% sin-free Christian, but if i know one thing, its that! !.!.!.!.!.
u know, kinda like they say, everything happens for a reason!.!.!.!.you dont see it now, but its for the best to let her go for now!.!.!.!.!.
(if at all possible, move!!.!.!.out of the city, or state, but move!.!.!.
the best way to get over someone
is to completely!.!.!.!.!.!.COM-PLETE-LY remove them from your life in every way!!!!
well!.!.!.!.those are my thoughts! hope it helps, good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please get counseling!.
When I was 20, I was engaged to a fellow who I adored!. I became pregnant and he dumped me!. That was almost 40 yrs!. ago and I still hurt!. How could he just leave me and go on with his life!.
I'm married and have two grown children now!. I have a good life but even as I type, the tears flow!.
I wish I had got counseling years ago but am to embarrassed and ashamed at this point!.
Don't go on for years feeling the way that you do cuz it's not fun or healthy!. Do yourself a big favor and get help from a professional!.
Not everything in life is fair and you need to learn how to except it somehow!.
Take care of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When I was 20, I was engaged to a fellow who I adored!. I became pregnant and he dumped me!. That was almost 40 yrs!. ago and I still hurt!. How could he just leave me and go on with his life!.
I'm married and have two grown children now!. I have a good life but even as I type, the tears flow!.
I wish I had got counseling years ago but am to embarrassed and ashamed at this point!.
Don't go on for years feeling the way that you do cuz it's not fun or healthy!. Do yourself a big favor and get help from a professional!.
Not everything in life is fair and you need to learn how to except it somehow!.
Take care of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com