How to keep back tears?!
Question: How to keep back tears!?
im a waitress and he it seems that when ever someone is an asshole i can't help but cry i can't keep back the tears because i take it really personal when someone doesn't like my service, and when this happends my face gets all red and all my tables then know that i've been crying and it's really embarricing!. Does anyone know any tricks to keep you from crying and from getting upset at a total stranger!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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People who are rude to their wait staff are empty on the inside!. You are not the problem, they are!. Think about how terrible your life would be if you had to be them, getting your kicks by pushing around someone who is trying to serve you!. They must really suffer from low self esteem if they have to lord it over a young waitress!. It is good that you want to do a good job!. Keep trying your best and remember the jerks are jerks everywhere they go, not just at your table!. Waiting tables is one of the hardest jobs in the world!. I've done it and I was terrible at it!. I always tip, always even if I get bad service!. I know how hard the person is working, on their feet!. I am always polite to my waiters too!. If I ever dine with anyone who is rude I tell them to knock it off and I apologize to the waiter for their behavior!. Don't hold back the tears!. Ball in front of them and maybe they will learn what jerks they are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try not to think about it, and spit in their food when you bring it to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At that moment, think of an escape!. By focussing on another thing the problems will hopefully go away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, keep some conceler and foundation in your purse so if you do start to cry, it will cover up much of the redness!. I would just try to think of something very amusing!. Like pretend the jerks are eating food that has been spit in (don't really spit in it)Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't take it personally!. Just roll your eyes and remember, there are going to be a lot of jerks out there and the best thing to do is ignore them and not give into their meanness (if that's even a word!.!.!. you get my point though)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be cheerful and stupid!. Act like nothing bothers you!. Act like you dont mind kissing their butts!. Even though you'd like to put your foot up their butts instead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ALL U HAVE TO DO IS YAWN FAKE YAWN AND THEN IT WILL SORTA JUST STOP THE TEARS FROM COMING DOWN AND U WONT FEEL THE NEED TO CRY YOUR EYES WILL BE FILLED W/ WATER BUT U WONT CRYWww@Answer-Health@Com
Therapy and medicines!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com