Is it possible to manipulate someone into loving them?!
Question: Is it possible to manipulate someone into loving them!?
by constantly rejecting then accepting them, by touching and eye contact!. I am putting this one on again because when I last put it up people thought I was the one doing the manipulating!. In fact someone is manipiulating me and I am suffering for it!. He is a colleague and part of my social life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Of course!. Playas are the experts at these!. There are even courses on the web that teach people how to do it!. Go check them out and you'll be amazed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you cant make someone love another person, if this guy is bothering you just tell him straight to quit it cos its pissing you off!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is possible to confuse a persons emotions to your own advantage!.
That seems manipulative, unfair and selfish if you ask me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That seems manipulative, unfair and selfish if you ask me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no I dont think you can it wont be love in the end it will be hatredWww@Answer-Health@Com
well playing hard to get is one thing, but downright manipulation is cruel, and a silly game which only immature people play!. I would ignore him from now on as you deserve better than this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is not possible to be manipulated unless one cooperates with the manipulator!. We will allow it if we think we will be gratified by allowing it, and this is the illusion that a manipulator will exploit!.
There is no lasting gratification from subjecting yourself to manipulation!. Get your gratification from helping other people to attain the objectives they want for themselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is no lasting gratification from subjecting yourself to manipulation!. Get your gratification from helping other people to attain the objectives they want for themselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi Tinkerbell,
So sorry you are being prayed upon by someone like this!.
No one should have to put up with unwanted attention and actions!.
I'd have a good talk with him and say STOP and mean it!.
If you continue to resist his behavior I hope he will get the message!.
Have others in your office had to put up with him too!?
Maybe if you asked a friend to come and help you when he gets into your space it might help give him a wake up call to stop bothering you!.
Stand up and be strong you have your personal rights!
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy GeriWww@Answer-Health@Com
So sorry you are being prayed upon by someone like this!.
No one should have to put up with unwanted attention and actions!.
I'd have a good talk with him and say STOP and mean it!.
If you continue to resist his behavior I hope he will get the message!.
Have others in your office had to put up with him too!?
Maybe if you asked a friend to come and help you when he gets into your space it might help give him a wake up call to stop bothering you!.
Stand up and be strong you have your personal rights!
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy GeriWww@Answer-Health@Com
So quit suffering!. No one can make you feel anything that you aren't willing to feel!. And if you were to take this guy seriously, you would have to live with his need for control!. He will try to manipulate you as long as you let him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can wear down somebody's will power , resistance , until they give in , but not make them love you !.
You would be wise to kindly but firmly ask your friend/colleague to stop pressuring you ; that you enjoy their friendship , value working with them ; but you do not want a relationship with them !.
I had a similar experience not so many years ago !. A longstanding friend of mine determined to have a relationship with me ; I resisted and resisted over seven months !. Eventually I gave in , thinking what the hell , we are both adults without partners !.
Getting caught in an unwanted relationship is easier than getting out of it !. If you don't love somebody you don't !. Stand firm and tell the man that you are not able to fall in love with him !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You would be wise to kindly but firmly ask your friend/colleague to stop pressuring you ; that you enjoy their friendship , value working with them ; but you do not want a relationship with them !.
I had a similar experience not so many years ago !. A longstanding friend of mine determined to have a relationship with me ; I resisted and resisted over seven months !. Eventually I gave in , thinking what the hell , we are both adults without partners !.
Getting caught in an unwanted relationship is easier than getting out of it !. If you don't love somebody you don't !. Stand firm and tell the man that you are not able to fall in love with him !.Www@Answer-Health@Com