Why are we so obsessed to be perfect?!
Question: Why are we so obsessed to be perfect!?
Cant everyone just be individual, not fake barbie dolls walking around who stereotype "Beautiful!." Brainwashing each day with size zero! And the need to look that bit normal!. We are all normal, the fact is, is something that we used to class abnormal becoming normal to us!? Size Zero is being accepted, young ones starving for the need!. We all need the same haircuts and walk around with the same facial expression!. I've had enough of this , its causing me to go somewhere I really dont want to go!. I want to be myself but I am being roped into being someone im not!.!.!."Everyone else!." I cant handle the pressure society puts on a 14 year old girl!. All I know is that something very very bad is going to happen to me in the future, if not present!.x Do you agree about all this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yes I do!.
But don't let it consume you! You seem really smart and kick *** for being 14 and knowing this **** now! You remind me of me! Lol!.
But!. Unfortunatly probably the only reason why I could understand and speak about it all so well, was because I am one of them!. Ive always wanted to be better than I am!. No I dont conform to what everyone else is, but I admire people sooo highly when they are beautiful!. Its a shame!. Guys and girls!. I just!. Admire it so much!. Im a visual person!. Im an artist!. Lol!. I mean that might not contribute a whole lot, but it feels like it does, because Im such a detailed person when it comes to the way things look!. And I just adore someone who is beautiful!. And I have always thought Im not!.
But deep down, I know everyone is beautiful in their own way!. That sounds like a load of ****!. Cause everyone says it!. But its really true!. Beauty, sex, that momentary feeling, is momentary!. You can hate someone who is "perfect" and looks amazing!. For their personality!. You can truly not like them for who they are even though they are beautiful!. However, unless you are a complete moronic loser, you cant truly hate someone you love, personality-wise/on the inside, because of their looks!. That just doesnt happen!. So what does that mean!? That means yeah ,the stereotypical bs is true!. What matters is whats on the inside!.
The ones who care so shallow and fake and falsely beautiful, and only look at people for that, have it harder!. Why!? Because they are honestly filled and consumed first with the thoughts of "you matter if your beautiful"!. We, as people who look at people on the inside, we will take anyone, regardless of what they look like!.!.!. so that means we have a bigger choice of friends and lovers to pick out! True friends and lovers! While the asshole fake people, have that select few fake shallow people to choose from, who in turn, often turn out to be aholes on the inside!.
So!. You have the right mentality, but be confident! Dont let other people consume you!. That is such an important lesson in life to really practice and take to heart!. Do your thing, forget the people who are truly wrong and pessimistics etc!. Live your own life ! <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
But don't let it consume you! You seem really smart and kick *** for being 14 and knowing this **** now! You remind me of me! Lol!.
But!. Unfortunatly probably the only reason why I could understand and speak about it all so well, was because I am one of them!. Ive always wanted to be better than I am!. No I dont conform to what everyone else is, but I admire people sooo highly when they are beautiful!. Its a shame!. Guys and girls!. I just!. Admire it so much!. Im a visual person!. Im an artist!. Lol!. I mean that might not contribute a whole lot, but it feels like it does, because Im such a detailed person when it comes to the way things look!. And I just adore someone who is beautiful!. And I have always thought Im not!.
But deep down, I know everyone is beautiful in their own way!. That sounds like a load of ****!. Cause everyone says it!. But its really true!. Beauty, sex, that momentary feeling, is momentary!. You can hate someone who is "perfect" and looks amazing!. For their personality!. You can truly not like them for who they are even though they are beautiful!. However, unless you are a complete moronic loser, you cant truly hate someone you love, personality-wise/on the inside, because of their looks!. That just doesnt happen!. So what does that mean!? That means yeah ,the stereotypical bs is true!. What matters is whats on the inside!.
The ones who care so shallow and fake and falsely beautiful, and only look at people for that, have it harder!. Why!? Because they are honestly filled and consumed first with the thoughts of "you matter if your beautiful"!. We, as people who look at people on the inside, we will take anyone, regardless of what they look like!.!.!. so that means we have a bigger choice of friends and lovers to pick out! True friends and lovers! While the asshole fake people, have that select few fake shallow people to choose from, who in turn, often turn out to be aholes on the inside!.
So!. You have the right mentality, but be confident! Dont let other people consume you!. That is such an important lesson in life to really practice and take to heart!. Do your thing, forget the people who are truly wrong and pessimistics etc!. Live your own life ! <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
the media encourages thisWww@Answer-Health@Com
You contradict yourself!. What if people want to be size zero because it makes them feel good!? What if i want to have the same exact haircut as everybody else!? You be yourself, and keep your teenage pissed off hormone fueled banter to yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's not media who creates this!. It's poeple!. Free market brings to front exactly what people desire!.
It's the mainstream who dictates trends!. But it's up to you if you would fall for them or not!.
And cliche says 'beauty is in the eye of beholder' and it's true!. There are people who will respect, like or even adore you for who you are, and will appreciate that you didn't become a barbie doll!. And why care for those who look for a barbie doll!?
You don't want to be shallow just to be appreciate by mainstread, driven by shallow (meaning fake) beauty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's the mainstream who dictates trends!. But it's up to you if you would fall for them or not!.
And cliche says 'beauty is in the eye of beholder' and it's true!. There are people who will respect, like or even adore you for who you are, and will appreciate that you didn't become a barbie doll!. And why care for those who look for a barbie doll!?
You don't want to be shallow just to be appreciate by mainstread, driven by shallow (meaning fake) beauty!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
people are pressured to be thin and to starve themselves, i feel this way too!. i am a 15 year old girl, and i have learned that people may think they need to be thin and perfect, and they have to go along with the croud!. i was like that, i didn't know what to do either!. my friends would make fun of others some times for not being as cute or as thin!.!.!. but i learned that people get more enjoyment if you do something out of the ordinary!. befriend somebody that has no friends, put something on that is completly wack, go outside and scream hello to the world!! people may think that you are wierd, but they will like you for it and want to be your friend, if they dont then they are boring self obsorbd snobs! if your friends don't except you for who you are then they aren't very good friends! don't just do somehting because they want you to, do it because YOU want to!.!.!. don't do something stupid that you will regret in the future!Www@Answer-Health@Com