I have a serious problem please help?!


Question: I have a serious problem please help!?
i'm telling you right now that i'm a girl who costs a lot of money! i've had braces for almost two years (although i didn't wanna do this but my parents insisted), i've had glasses for 8 years and than switched to contact lenses, my mom is paying for a hair removal (as a gift!.!.!. could you believe it!?)

now, why am i telling you this!? because i always find something i don't like about my body and the next thing i wanna do is attaching my ears (they're not that prominent but they're more than the average and it bothers me, i always go with my hair loose)!. anyway, i wanna pay for it myself but it's a lot of money!!! my problem (finally) is that i'm not confident enough to deal with customers!. i wanna work and all and last year i took a chance at a flower shop but i was told that i would run it all by myself in a short while and i got scared i didn't believe i could do this alone so i quit!. anyway, i get a lot of opportunities and i keep rejecting them because of my fear!. what should i doWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Fear holds us back and stops us acheiving, it also helps us stay safe and wamr and protected!. The issue comes when you use fear as an excuse and allow it to hold you back!.

You mentioned the issues you have with your body!. I would initally suggest that maybe you need to seek some advice on this front and seek some professional help!. Dismorphia is a crippling illness, and the society we live in does not make this any easier!.

But i also quiestion, will getting your ears fixed do the trick or are they just the currenlt in a very long line!?

Mine was weight: When I lose x pounds Ill be better/prettier/happer and able to do Y!. But either Id sabotage X or id get there and therewould be a new Z to hit or do first instead!.

Issues have to be dealt with and shouldnt be invalidated, but sometimes they can also be a dandy little crutch!. "Its not my fault" attitudes give us the excuses we need when we are scared!. Its scary having to make your own way and be all "adult"!. Its scary to have to accept hard home truths!. The fantasy is sometimes nicer!. People are nicer to you when you have something else to blame!.

But its also holdnig you back from being who you can and want to be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm really the same way!. I ruin my own life and happiness because of my crippling insecurity, I don't want to be seen at work, I mess up stuff with girls, because I am insecurre as hell!. Also I don't have any money or parents and was born deformed!.Hemi facial Microsomia!. I didn't get it as bad as some but it sucks!. I just don't know if I can handle this life anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Eat a teaspoon of cement and harden the **** up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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