Hey can someone help me please?!
Question: Hey can someone help me please!?
I just feel as though i have no control of my life, i hate it, i have wasted 2 years of my education, but now i have decided what carer i want to do and that is teaching, and that is i mite by leaving uni when i am 24-25, do you think that that is no late, i feel like i just will that i was never born sometimes, ifeel as though i ma never meant to be happy or enjoy life!. that all i have every wanted, sometimes i feel like when things are going okay for my that something so always gonnaa slap me across the face, i ope that i am making sense!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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some things in life are just beyond your control!. you have make the most of it!.!. if you really want to do teaching then go right ahead and teach!. so what if you leave uni when your 24 you are still young and have plenty of time to do it!.!. you are right whenever things feel really good there is always something there to slap you in the face but there is an old saying!. "if you fall of your horse you get up and get back on" everything you go through will help you in the future, it will wisen you up my father calls it growing pains i am 26 and i still have my "growing pains" !.!. whenever i have a bad time i think to myself that tomorrow is a new day and today will be gone!. hope this makes sence to you i really do!.!. but do not let anyone or anything hold you down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hang in there things will get better
see your family doctor
mine started me on cymbalta
it helps out a lotWww@Answer-Health@Com
see your family doctor
mine started me on cymbalta
it helps out a lotWww@Answer-Health@Com
You have typical depression!. See a councelor and talk it out!. Nothing is too late, if you have the will to do so!. Go for what you want to do!. Life is too short not to actually LIVE!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's great that you finally figured out what it is you want to do with your life!. Teaching is a great profession!. But you do sound depressed, too, which might make it hard to stick with all the course work and finish your degree!. Does your college have a student health center where you could find someone to talk to!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
its never too late to change things and do different things :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay, so relax, life is too short to be so uptight about your career!. So, I am a teacher and the education, pay, and stress is not worth it!. There are so many things a teacher has to do today when it comes to paperwork and No Child Left Behind, you can't teach!. You have to follow the school curriculum and if they don't like the way you teach, you get canned!. You need to step back and look at you life in a different perspective, not your perspective!. Allow yourself to "talk" to your mind without other people giving their opinion!. I know it seems like a never ending struggle to find happiness but you have to just let it happend instead of chase it down!. You chase it and it will always run!. If you allow yourself to relax and let your head become less jumbled, you will find some clarity!. I know how you feel and eventually things work themselves out, not as fast as we want, but it will happen!. You ALWAYS deserve to live! Hold your head up and know that you have years to decide what career you want but only today to decide to enjoy your life, no matter what!Www@Answer-Health@Com
kk, lemme giv u sum logic:
life's hard, a lot of the time!. that's just the way it is!. good things are always harder to get than bad!. BUT! you always have the power to make things better!. Here's how:
1) stop griping about all the bad stuff!. it slows any production you make and gets you NOWHERE!
2)go and get some icecream!. chocolate is preferable!.
3)start trying to find solutions to your problems!. ask friends for help, be creative!
4)get more icecream or other comfort food cuz it rocks :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
life's hard, a lot of the time!. that's just the way it is!. good things are always harder to get than bad!. BUT! you always have the power to make things better!. Here's how:
1) stop griping about all the bad stuff!. it slows any production you make and gets you NOWHERE!
2)go and get some icecream!. chocolate is preferable!.
3)start trying to find solutions to your problems!. ask friends for help, be creative!
4)get more icecream or other comfort food cuz it rocks :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, well the first thing you should recognize is that you have a focus now and it's great you've realized what you want to do!. That in itself is a great step!. A lot of people that are at university either have no idea what they want or are in the wrong field!. So be proud of yourself for knowing what it is that you want!.
Also, it is a lot more common than you may think to stay at university longer than the average age!. And even if you find that others around you are younger than you, just think wouldn't you rather spend a few extra years preparing to go into something you really want as opposed to going into a career path not meant for you!?
In terms of happiness, again, if you are passionate about teaching, then being in university for that will be a great feeling!. And each day or a few times a week, set time aside to do things you love!.
About things going okay and then something 'slapping you in the face' - that's just how things work!. And you have to be mindful of it!. Things won't always be perfect and pleasant, and they won't always be horrible either!. Every experience you go through has some greater good hidden in it!. Perhaps all the negativity you have gone through or the 2 years you feel you wasted happened in order for you to realize what you really want to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, it is a lot more common than you may think to stay at university longer than the average age!. And even if you find that others around you are younger than you, just think wouldn't you rather spend a few extra years preparing to go into something you really want as opposed to going into a career path not meant for you!?
In terms of happiness, again, if you are passionate about teaching, then being in university for that will be a great feeling!. And each day or a few times a week, set time aside to do things you love!.
About things going okay and then something 'slapping you in the face' - that's just how things work!. And you have to be mindful of it!. Things won't always be perfect and pleasant, and they won't always be horrible either!. Every experience you go through has some greater good hidden in it!. Perhaps all the negativity you have gone through or the 2 years you feel you wasted happened in order for you to realize what you really want to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's never too late to get an education, I was 30 when I decided to go to nursing school, and it was the best decision I ever made for my life!. You'll have a good 5 years than I did!
You just have to be patient, and more positive about things!. If you think you're NEVER going to be happy, you never will!.
I know this may sound hokie, but read any of Eckhard Tolle's books, they will make you look at the world a little differently!.
If reading self help is not your thing, talk to a therapist about your feelings!. I have and it helped!.
Hopefully you'll realize that every moment you are alive is never a waste of time!. Think about it, those 2 years weren't wasted!.
That was 2 years of an education that has made you a more informed and well-rounded person!. The fact that you know that was not a direction you wanted to go in is a sign that you are in control and have made the decision to do something different!.!.!. you just need to alter your perception of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You just have to be patient, and more positive about things!. If you think you're NEVER going to be happy, you never will!.
I know this may sound hokie, but read any of Eckhard Tolle's books, they will make you look at the world a little differently!.
If reading self help is not your thing, talk to a therapist about your feelings!. I have and it helped!.
Hopefully you'll realize that every moment you are alive is never a waste of time!. Think about it, those 2 years weren't wasted!.
That was 2 years of an education that has made you a more informed and well-rounded person!. The fact that you know that was not a direction you wanted to go in is a sign that you are in control and have made the decision to do something different!.!.!. you just need to alter your perception of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need more education to be a teacher!.
Think how lucky you are many people don't get the opportunity!.
Life is a struggle for everyone - make it a happy journeyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Think how lucky you are many people don't get the opportunity!.
Life is a struggle for everyone - make it a happy journeyWww@Answer-Health@Com