Girlfriend having major surgery... how do i cope with the stress? i am so scared!
Question: Girlfriend having major surgery!.!.!. how do i cope with the stress!? i am so scared right now!!?
we are 17 years old and have dated for over a year!. she is leaving sunday to have a kidney transplant and will be gone at least!. with school and other commitments, i don;t know if i can go and see her, even for a weekend since she will be 600 miles away!. I am so scared and so stressed and i want to just breakdown and cry!. i've tried to cope with the stress with many different spproaches: praying, doing other things like a drama and talent show, listening to comforting music, talking with friends, but i am still so scared and i feel like i am going to breakdown one day without warning and have somekind of anxiety attack!. what else can i do!? please help me, i have never been so scared in my life!. i love her so much!. she has changed my life around completely from terrible to miracle!. I don't want her to go through more medical things as she has already had a heart transplant years ago!.!.!. i feel so bad for her, and idon;t know what to do, please help, i am so scared!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I think you need to talk to someone about your fears!. Maybe your parents or even her parents if your close enough to them!. If you feel like crying then dont be ashamed to do so!. Have a chat with your doctor also and he can help you understand all the details of her type of operation too!. I feel for you as 600 miles is quite a distance and you must write or keep in touch by phone if you cant get a visit just always let your g/f know you are constantly there as she will also feel so afraid!. Please dont suffer in silence just tell your mum or doc what you wrote here and im sure they will you give you some comfort you so obviously need!. I hope your g/f operation goes well
Good luck to you bothWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck to you bothWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think it was very mean of her to have this surgery at this time and leaving you alone!. i would have wait until i get older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i don't know your geographic situation, but cant you check up on her by phone at least once or twice a day!? do not panic, just relax and pray she not only recovers, but recovers in a better shape than ever!. try to stay in touch!. as for stress, i don't know why you doing drama and other activities, just do normal things and set time to relax!. and check up on her!. phone at least!. just try that!. i don't wanna say your overreacting, because i have been in the same situation, and i know the feeling!. just relax and contact me if u need help!. least i can say or do for now!. good luck!. cheers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com