I'm having dinner with my dad I'm really nervous?!


Question: I'm having dinner with my dad I'm really nervous!?
I have not talked to him in 3 months!. We have never got along!. When I lived at home we fought the whole time!. We both are very stubborn!. I'm just like him!. I called him because I missed my dad!. He is picking me up at 6pm!. I just hope we can get along!. How can I not be nervous!? Thanks everyone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I'm the same way with my mom!. Because you're both strong-willed, your personalities are just clashing!. Just keep making a conscious effort not to argue or discuss topics you may strongly disagree about!. Just make pleasant small-talk and try to enjoy yourself!. It's great that you're making an effort to see and talk to him! Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hes your dad just have funWww@Answer-Health@Com

try to relax, take some deep breathes!. just because you did not get along in the past, does not mean you will not get along now!. just relax, and try to have funWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you know any of his 'hot buttons' - avoid them!. Maybe tell him a little about your life (unless you know he's not going to like what you're telling him)!. Ask him what's going on in his life!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He'll be as if not more nervous than you!.
Just enjoy yourself and tell him you missed him!.
Not being able to live together doesn't mean you can't have a perfect relationship living apart!.

Never leave it too late to tell your parents you love them!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You know its almost like that movie where they tell the young guy to think about dead puppies to keep his excitment down!.!.!.same for you think of something that you find funny,hysterical!. and keep that train of thought!. Dont stoop to his level and argue,,show him that you have grown and matured and no longer need those bad habits!.!.I am sure you dinner will be great,This will give each other a chance to see what changes on gone on in your life and what you expect to do with the rest of it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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