I'm so weak, I don't know what to do?!


Question: I'm so weak, I don't know what to do!?
I know I need help, I just don't want it and can't bring myself to get it!. I'm fifteen, and over the last year I've changed so much that I don't know what I'm doing anymore!. I get quite a lot of money each week off my parents, but they don't really pay attention to what I spend it on!. I smoke around 10-15 cigarettes a day, and I know how bad it is for me!. I got in with the wrong crowd about 7 months ago and started at first taking ecstasy and smoking weed, but now I use acid and occasionally heroin as well!. I've lost all the friends I once had, I'm failing at school!. I literally don't know who I am anymore and neither does anyone else, I can't remember what I am without drugs!. I'm not seriously addicted but I can't go a day without some kind of drugs!. I go out with a lot of guys but they all tend to use me!. I hardly ever eat anything and everyone says I'm too skinny!. I know how bad I need help but I just don't want it!. I have a two year old sister who adores me - she is my worldWww@Answer-Health@Com


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No, you can't stop because you can't teach yourself how to stop!. You are the issue, the problem now, and you aren't gonna solve the problem yourself!. It isnt in your hands anymore!.

From reading what you wrote, you seem to be very listless!. You seem to have no mindset as to what or who you are, and the drugs and everything you have done is what has made this you I believe!.

So of course, YOU cannot change the path you are on, but someone else can!. Stop focusing on making you change yourself, because from reading what you wrote, it sounds like there is no way in hell that that is going to happen!. My heart hurt a bit when I read this, not to pull out the corny bullshit, but it really did!. You are used by all the guys you go with!? When someone is being used by people, that basically means you have no self worth!.!. you dont even treat yourself of the basic needs, like food!? you just dont feel like eating, because you have to go out and do something, such as get high, and im sure you dont enjoy being sober, its almost as if your life is NOT being sober, and when you are, you dont know what to do!.!. !?

If Im right on all this, you need to get someone to help you!. You seriously need to!. I will honestly be surprised if you get the motivation to do it!. Why you dont seem to have any motivation whatsoever, is because you have become incredibly selfish and negative!. You might be feeling like ****, but deep down, you are your number one priority!. Feeding the hunger of a drug or some **** that YOU need!. Not anybody else!.

Someone needs to slap you around a little bit, out of tough love, and i wanna be a bit harsh to you, because you need discipline enough so to motivate you to TRULY get help from someone!. There are solutions, at school perhaps!? Go to a professional, who can help you out!.!. you have the internet, call someone, call a hotline or place where they can help you change!.

You as of right now don't have a life!. Because you are not motivated to do anything, and you dont seem to emit any self-love!. Those are the first things you need to even just begin living your life!.

I really hope that you find help, and work things out, and get somewhere!. I honestly feel you, im sorry and I wish you alot of luck!.!.!. hope I helped!.!.!. <3Www@Answer-Health@Com

calm downWww@Answer-Health@Com

If you don't want help, getting help will do nothing for you!. You have to want to change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am guessing you're a teenager!. We ALL do some kind of "thing" in our teen years while we're figuring out who we are and what we're about!.!.!. It's ok not to know right now!.!.!. it's what growing up is for!.

Yes, what you are doing is bad for you, but you KNOW it is!. Now go make some friends who are a better influence on you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if u r serious about getting help, then 1 day when ur sober, u should write a letter about this and leave it where some1 that can do something can find it!. maybe they can get u help!. i hope ur life turns out 4 the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com

One of the characteristics of maturity is the ability to get up and do things that you don't want to do!. You don't want help, understandable!. But that's exactly what you need!. Start with your high school counselor, or if that has no appeal, start with your family doctor!. There is help out there!. Find it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok, you need some help!. just look back at who you were before this all started!. do you like yourself now!? you need to calm down and just breathe a little!. what you really need is a good friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are still so young!. Please get help now- before you look back and regret your life wasted away!. I didn't get help until I was 28 and I think of all the things I could have had and how much easier my life would have been!. Good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honey, I know you feel lonely and that your parents aren't paying any attention to you, but now is the time you really need them!. Please have them sit down and tell them what you have just revealed!. I bet they will have a lot of emotions including: guilt, love for you and most of all they will care and help you!. If you can't bring yourself to do this, find a trusting adult friend whom you can confide in!.
Good luck and God Bless You!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, you would get more help but random adults are not allowed to get too close to minors or there can be huge legal problems/jail time!. You need to find other things that you like to do!. Like drawing or playing guitar!. I know that a lot of illegal drugs bring out creativity but only if you do things to bring them out like what I mentioned before!. You can get legal help from adults but you already said that you don't want to confront the problem up front so!.!.!. I would try to use what you have to create the "new" you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u need to understand is on the long run u r going to have to deal with consequences , ur still a child ur still developing ur reeking a havoc on ur brains chemistry not to mention the crazy things u might do when ur high u might feel unloved by ur family right now but when u get older u will understand that ur family loves in their own way not all ppl know how to communicate it , iv been down that road and i learned the hard way I'm 29 and i have to struggle with anxiety disorder not to mention i have a crappy job while I'm trying to finish college that i didn't finish because all the **** that i did !. saying no to drugs is easier than u think dear just find it in ur self to love ur self enough to stop seek help talk to someone u trust they might get angry but they love u and they will help u!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your first step is admitting that you have a problem, which is a step in the right direction!. You have to want to get help for you to be a better person, it make no sense to want to do it for other people because you're going to end up relapsing over and over again!. I encourage you to build up that courage within yourself and get the help you need!. It seem to me that you are a nice person and you are so young to take on a habit such as this!. Please, please, pleeeese! I'm begging you, get the help right now!. Do this for yourself and your family which include your little sister will also reap the benenfit of you getting back on the right track!. Start by talking to someone, probably your mom, dad, friend or even your school counsellor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are writing a question here - so yes, you know you need help and more importantly, you want help!. You also want to keep everything a secret!. The bad crowd you hang out with - they are not your friends!. Cut them completely out of your life!. No phone, no getting together, no text messaging!. Getting help will be much easier when they aren't around to influence you!. Talk to your parents, a teacher, a pastor, any responsible adult who can get you the help you don't know how to ask for!. The people around you already know - they just don't know how to approach you about it, just like you don't know how to approach them!. Please don't wait!. You have a sister who needs you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, do calm down!.

nothing is as bad as it seems!. Ok so you're having a crisis!. but a crisis is also an opportunity to improve!.

first of all you're just 15!. that's barely a quarter of your life!. at your age, you're still trying to find the person you are!. technically, I think it's normal to try things, legal or not!. It's practically the best way to experience life!. so you do drugs a little!. so you've done some "bad" things!. it will just make you appreciate the "better things in life" more!.

if you don't like how drugs are making your life turn out to be, stop it!. you can!. from what you wrote it very much sounds like you want to stop!. I advise you to seek help even if you don't think you're addicted (although not being able to go a day without some kind of drug is pretty much a sign of addiction) seek help!. there is help out there!. (I'm afraid I can't be more specific since I don't know where you are exactly, but I'm sure there are)!.

quit the drugs!. get help quitting!. get your life back!.

don't focus on what you've done!. you can't change any of that!. focus on what you can do!. you can do this!. it will be hard, but it won't be impossible!.

best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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