I need some advice ?!


Question: I need some advice !?
Some may think its sad that I am turning to YA to ask about this, but I can't talk to my family cause I don't want them to be disapointed in me!. So I am a full time student & work full time!. I live by myself & two dogs in chicago I am completely burnt out!. My heart is in it 100%, but my body is wore out!. I get two hours a sleep per night & eat once a day!. I can't physically & even mentally do it anymore!. I have to work full time because I need to support myself & I can't even hardly do that with working full time!.I am also paying for school while Im in school!. I can't get any loans because of my credit, my mom is not a round &my dad can't help, but would if he could!. There's no one else to turn to!. I was sent to the ER for mal nutrition!.I can't do this anymore, but I can't quit work or I wont be able to live, so I have to put work before school!. I can't work just part time for the same reason!. I am in culinary school so it's not part time or full time i have to go by there schedule!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I think everyone should live out their dreams, but you have to keep yourself healthy and strong, or your dreams will surely go to waste!. I know how you feel!. I have never had help with my children, not even from my husband!. I tried to work, go to school, and take care of the house by myself!. Now, my body is worn down and I am on nerve medicine!. You are just one person!. You can't do it all!. You should definetly hold off on school, just until your back on your feet!. School will always be there, but right now, your health is much more important!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to listen to what your BODY is telling you!.!.!. don't worry about anyone or anything else, do what you need to do to take care of YOU!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well finishing school won't be of any use if you are dead!. Take leave of school, concentrate on your health and financial well being!. If it is truly your dream, it isn't going anywhere!. Live as frugally as you can and save so when you are rested and ready to return to school, you won't need to work so hard!. I have been there - I ended up having a breakdown in the middle of the semester!. I went from being on the Dean's List to less than a 2!.0!. Thankfully, they let me take a medical withdrawal so it wouldn't destroy my GPA!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I work full-time, but only attend school part-time (thank God), b/c days like today, I feel just like what you described!. I know it sounds hard, but you have to finish school!. If you don't, you will struggle with a lousy job for much much longer!. It's hard now, but when you are done, you will be so much better off!. That being said, you need to set yourself as a priority!. No favors for friends and family!. You need to focus 100% on work when at work, and 100% on school, when at school!. Get off the computer at 10:45 PM at night on a wednesday, and just get to bed :o) If you make yourself your own priority, you will get through this!.!.!. I relate to you b/c I too have no one, but myself, but I know that when I am done with school, I will be a success, and proud of my accomplishment that no one else had anything to do with!.!.!. And last but not least, you, unlike many classmates, will not be thousands of dollars in debt, when starting your new career!.!.!. You can do this!.!.!. Just focus on you, and be a little selfish for your own good! Lots of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

can you get a roommate!? that would help GREATLY with your expenses!. maybe that would help the other areas as well!. take care of yourself!. no one else will!. i've learned this in MANY years of ignoring my body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How much can you handle is the question!. How long do you have left in school before you are done!? If it is less than one year you may want to consider pushing yourself and taking supplements in order to reach your goal!. I had a similar situation!. I was working full time and going to nursing school full-time (2 things that they dont recommend)!. I was stress and I had a family and home that I needed to take care of!. I was receiving a government grant to go to school, and I didnt want to pay back ANY loan!. So worked to take care of my household and my child!. It is doable, I just kept thinking about the light at the end of the tunnel!. But dont burn yourself out and risk your health!. You could buy some ensure shakes or boost to supplement your nutritional needs!. And make sure that your one meal a day is high in protein, good fats, and veggiesWww@Answer-Health@Com





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