Do you know someone close to you who commited suicide?!


Question: Do you know someone close to you who commited suicide!?
why did they do it!?

do you think people around them lacked empathy to them when they were alive!?

did they just had it coming!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Yes, several people actually!. I think it was a combination of mental health and depression, when you add that with the stress and unkindness of the world, they just couldn't go on any longer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no, but i have someone who is close to me that i dont know!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

This i'm afraid is way too common in Ireland!. I'm from a very small town in the west of Ireland, not even a town actually a village and i know 6 people that have killed themselves in the last 3 years!. Nobody knows why they do it!. It's so sad and so hard on the families that are left behind to deal with it, coz there's no closure!. It's terrible!. :-(Www@Answer-Health@Com

this summer my father killed my mother and then killed himself, Everybody seemed to say to me, "I'm sorry for the lost of your mother"!.!.!.!.!.!.no one mentioned sorry for the lost of your dad, i didnt just lose one parent i lost both!. and people also dont understand that things happen in a persons mind that would make them do something like kill someone or themself!.!.!.!.!.I love my mom and dad, and i dont feel any thing bad towards my dad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

!.yes, I have known friends to commit suicide!. Reasons are not always known - perhaps they had nobody they felt they could turn to for help and understanding!. Sometimes, they cannot talk to their close family or friends!.

Not quite sure what you mean by "did they just had it coming!?"

Remember that the Samaritans are always available to talk about suicidal feelings and to listen to those suffering any kind of emotional distress - ring 08457 909090 at any time of the day or night!.

Addition: Thanks for the clarification!. A person's situation could mean that they are vulnerable to suicidal feelings!. Sometimes, everything seems to happen to one person and so they may reach a point when they simply cannot go on!. Not sure if this can be pre-determined or a matter of fate!. Could depend on the individual person and situation(s)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My cousin killed himself when he was 15 years old!. He did it because he felt like he wasn't needed!. It isn't that we lacked empathy, looking back, he just didn't feel heard!. It turns out there was stuff going on in the marriage that the rest of us didn't know about!.

My nephew (by marriage), killed himself after a night of drinking!. He had a fight with his girlfriend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

In the last 5yrs where I live 10 people have killed themselves, and the famillies have all been left with the question "why" "what could I've done" its time people stop treating depression as something to be ashamed of!.!. If the famillies of those ten people had known that their sons and daughters were suffering that bad they would of done everything to help them get better,,, so to answer to your question no the people around them wouldnt of lacked empathy and nobody has it coming when their child,parent,auntie,uncle,cousin, or friends are deadWww@Answer-Health@Com

yes my dads sister drowned herself!!!:(Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, He was in 7th Grade It was very very sad, I don't know all was in his head I believe it steamed from a girl, It is never going to be the same!. My family is still taking it very hard!. He was a great person, very friendly, always got along with everyone, enjoyed sports, was close to his family!. It was so unexpected the thing that still sticks out to me to this day is the supposely girl in question was at the funeral and it was like she was at a social gathering or event, she was laughing saying can you believe he did this for me, those chilling words!. It's devastating so FINAL useless!. I/we miss him dearly,Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, my cousin hung himself!. no one really knows y he seemed happy and loved everything in life!. But from my point of view i think he wanted attention from his parents more than anything!. i loved him and i didn't even find out about it until 2 weeks after the funeral so it has always bothered me, so wat it has been like 3 years now but i still don't think its fair they left me in the dark!. He was loved by so many its hard to find a reason he did it !.!.!.!.hopefully one day i'll get to ask him though, one day i'll get to understand everything he was going through and y he did wat he did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My ex-husband did!. He had battled alcoholism all his adult life, he had the attitude that the world was picking on him and had this whole pity party thing going on!. But we never saw suicide coming!. Looking back, I really think he was depressed!. He used to tell our kids that I was 'crazy' because I took Prozac!. He was too proud to admit he may have needed help in that category so he found help in a bottle!. He alienated just about everyone but his very close friends and family and killed himself!. No note,no nothing!. His mom had to clean out his house, sell it, take care of all the unfinished business, etc!.

I don't think anyone lacked empathy for him--he just put up awful blinders and hated the world and anyone who had ever done him wrong!. He was very bitter towards the end, refused to talk to me and would only talk to the kids maybe twice a year!.

Suicide may seem like the easy way out but it is a cruel thing to do to those you leave behind!. You may THINK no one cares, but I guarantee you someone does!. Don't do this to those people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes
two of my friends got in to heroin and making counterfit money!. so they decided to lay in front of a ******* train!.
I will never forgive them for that!.!.
not even considering what would happen to their family and friends!.
we go to a 'theraputic day school'
and after that!.!.!.so many kids havent even come back to school
I HATE them!!!
ugh!. I'm ******* crying just telling you this!.!.!.

dont ever do that to yourselves people!.
especially your family and friends

and yes!. I KNOW it is selfishWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah this guy named Chris commited suicide because I made fun of him, alot!. I didn't make fun of him because I didn't like him!.
Its because he was Fat,
he was emo,
he had a 1 in a half inch penis,
he never kissed a girl,
his best friend was a some kid named almir, who was gay,
I am pretty sure he was gay,
he had pimples all over his face!.

Omg he was ugly!. Like Daammm well atleast he left me his xbox!. :) and it still has 1 year xbox LIVE!. YEAH NI**AWww@Answer-Health@Com





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