Do I like being sad?!
Question: Do I like being sad!?
Hi, So this is my situation!. I am frequently finding ways to feel guilty, a victim and enjoy making others feel they did something wrong to me and then have to apologise!. If my partner doesnt call me; i dont but i suffer, and i try every single way to make him feel Im suffering!. Ive come to think i like the idea of suffering, becuase feeling like crying is typical in me, and even though that is killing me , I cant stop doing it!. I was taking effexor for depression, which I thought would help, and it just gave me weird effects so I gave up, I wouldnt like to think what is and what is not "normal" but I am sure I have a problem, and dont know how to approach it, my psy didnt help much!. Does this sound like a typical disorderWww@Answer-Health@Com
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It sounds as though you get pleasure from receiving attention!. That's not a bad thing--many people do!. But you *are* going about it in ways that are abnormal and possibly indicative of a problem that needs professional attention!.
Perhaps you enjoy guilt tripping others due to something you feel has been done to you in the past!? Many people make this symbolic gesture!. It's kind of an extreme way of compensating!.
Something within you is hurting!. It sounds as though what you need is therapy (and not simply drugs) to work through the issues that make you feel this way!. I hope you find help!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Perhaps you enjoy guilt tripping others due to something you feel has been done to you in the past!? Many people make this symbolic gesture!. It's kind of an extreme way of compensating!.
Something within you is hurting!. It sounds as though what you need is therapy (and not simply drugs) to work through the issues that make you feel this way!. I hope you find help!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need another Doctor, and some other medication!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
LOL I'm the same!. I don't make others feel guilty but I feel drawn to misery, so I just suck it up these days!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it does kinda sound bi-polar!. but you do need professional help, so if your psy didnt help get a new oneWww@Answer-Health@Com
One word BipolarWww@Answer-Health@Com
Yes you love being sad!. your emo!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi,
I too have certain times when I do that!. I have times when I am extremely moody(even act irrational)!. Where you loved as a child between 1 yr and 3yr!? I may have had an angry mother who abused me during those years!. It leaves a fear deep within you!. You want a partner who can be there for as long as you need!. You need extra assurance you are loved!. me too!.!. It has left me feeling insecure!. Wanting attention!. I still suffer from it!. I still have depression episodes!. And, medicine is not the answer really!. Two or three good friends to cry-on, and a very good relationship will help!. I also did WRENS,Waking-rapid eye movements!. Its on the web!. the most important thing is to have a very loving partner!. Hope that helps!.
Rob!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I too have certain times when I do that!. I have times when I am extremely moody(even act irrational)!. Where you loved as a child between 1 yr and 3yr!? I may have had an angry mother who abused me during those years!. It leaves a fear deep within you!. You want a partner who can be there for as long as you need!. You need extra assurance you are loved!. me too!.!. It has left me feeling insecure!. Wanting attention!. I still suffer from it!. I still have depression episodes!. And, medicine is not the answer really!. Two or three good friends to cry-on, and a very good relationship will help!. I also did WRENS,Waking-rapid eye movements!. Its on the web!. the most important thing is to have a very loving partner!. Hope that helps!.
Rob!.Www@Answer-Health@Com