Can anyone help??!
Question: Can anyone help!?!?
im 15 female!. last year my doctor diagnosed me with a severe case of anxiety and depression and put me on tablets for both!. since then ive been very causious about things and i started to get paranoid!. this paranoia led to my bulimia (make myself sick)!. i have been bulimic for a good part of a year now my friends and family do not no!. but mum seems to be getting suspicious around me and is becoming concerned about the weight i have lost and how much i over excercise!. she keeps taking me back to the doctors but i cant tell him because she is in the room i dont want her to worry!. i have had councelling from school and my bulimia stopped for a bit but something happened recently that trigurred it off again!. im just worried ill never stop!. can this happen!? because of my other illnesses it makes it easy to slip back into my old habbits as im weak!.!.!.!.does anyone no what i can do!? or who can i see to get REAL help!? please i need it :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i myself had a smiliar problem!. i have suffered from depression for years and eventually developed bulimia as well!. you need to talk to your doctor and i also strongly advise you to seek counseling as well!. these are problems that you have no control over and only seeking the appropriate professional help is going to make any difference!. i understand that you do not want your parents to worry and so you do not want to disclose this information in front of your mom!. perhaps she would let you meet with the doctor without her, just let her know that you are somewhat uncomfortable with the situation and that your doctor will get more reliable and accurate information from you if you can talk to him one on one!. if you continue to keep everyone in the dark about the bulimia problem it will not get better and things can only go down hill!. you need to seek help!. things can and will get better!. it is a difficult process but therapy and medication in combination make it possible to resume a more normal life!. good luck in your quest for normalcy and dont be afraid to ask for help!. no one can judge you for conditions you have no control over!. and more than likely your mom, doctor, friends, etc!. only want you to get well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'd suggest (1) arranging to see the doctor without your mother being there (2) getting some long-term talk therapy!. There are probably some underlying reasons for your feelings and a therapist would help you (A) figure those out and decide on better ways to deal with them so that you can experience some positive changes and (B) stay on track with your efforts to treat yourself better!.
Tell the school counselor that you need these two things (to see the doctor alone and to get more therapy) and ask the counselor to help you arrange these things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell the school counselor that you need these two things (to see the doctor alone and to get more therapy) and ask the counselor to help you arrange these things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you really want help, and it sounds like it's needed, don't try to keep this a secret from your mom or anyone else!. That's a symptom of the disease, and you need to overcome it to beat it!.Believe me, she will worry anyway, so let her do it now before this gets totally out of hand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Drugs and pills and medical doctors putting their noses in where they do not belong should be a crime, but the AMA is stronger than justice!.
I suggest you focus on three realities: Inside you are a Perfect Soul, permanent, and an aspect of God; The outside reality is you have a body and a brain, and both are temporary, and to be used by you to do your Karma for this lifetime; And in the middle is your MIND, and it is a machine that just loves to cause you to jump through hoops!.!.!. because this makes your MIND feel powerful!.!.!. but everything about the MIND is delusional, seeming real because it manifests in the physical plane, but in actuality it is not real because the only part of you that is Absolutely Real is your Soul!.
So, the question is this!.!.!.!. can you begin to focus on what is Real, and to participate in what is not real [life that you must participate in] like it was a play, while you are very much aware that you are "acting"!?
But does this not make one a schizophrenic!? Of course it does, and this is precisely what we all are, are we not!? A Soul, using a MIND to interact with a physical realm that we use for X number of years before we die, and then do it all again in another body!. There is a "Purpose" to all of this, but the purpose is usually kept secret!. The purpose!? For the Soul to explore and experience everything the physical plane has to offer!.!.!. while ones experiencing slowly builds Knowledge that is stored within ones Spiritual realm!.
I realize that for 15, this is a lot to take in and to ponder!.!.!. but take your time, there is no hurry!. But please begin by accepting that you are a Perfect Soul, and you need to respect this!. Life is a play, and whatever part you have cast for yourself!.!.!. do a good job playing your role!.
PeaceWww@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest you focus on three realities: Inside you are a Perfect Soul, permanent, and an aspect of God; The outside reality is you have a body and a brain, and both are temporary, and to be used by you to do your Karma for this lifetime; And in the middle is your MIND, and it is a machine that just loves to cause you to jump through hoops!.!.!. because this makes your MIND feel powerful!.!.!. but everything about the MIND is delusional, seeming real because it manifests in the physical plane, but in actuality it is not real because the only part of you that is Absolutely Real is your Soul!.
So, the question is this!.!.!.!. can you begin to focus on what is Real, and to participate in what is not real [life that you must participate in] like it was a play, while you are very much aware that you are "acting"!?
But does this not make one a schizophrenic!? Of course it does, and this is precisely what we all are, are we not!? A Soul, using a MIND to interact with a physical realm that we use for X number of years before we die, and then do it all again in another body!. There is a "Purpose" to all of this, but the purpose is usually kept secret!. The purpose!? For the Soul to explore and experience everything the physical plane has to offer!.!.!. while ones experiencing slowly builds Knowledge that is stored within ones Spiritual realm!.
I realize that for 15, this is a lot to take in and to ponder!.!.!. but take your time, there is no hurry!. But please begin by accepting that you are a Perfect Soul, and you need to respect this!. Life is a play, and whatever part you have cast for yourself!.!.!. do a good job playing your role!.
PeaceWww@Answer-Health@Com