I think im depressed and there could be a couple bases for it, please help someo!


Question: I think im depressed and there could be a couple bases for it, please help someone!?
i dont feel that i can confide in my friends about this because they all have their own little problems and they wouldnt understand, anyways!. i am 13, and am in 8th grade!. now i will tell you the small basic depression-causing details of my life!. if anyone ever reads this!. ok!. first off, summer is coming and that means i wont get to see my friends that much!. then high school comes, where i will have a lesser chance of being with my friends in classes!. plus, i have a really big crush on this guy but i found out on his myspace that he is obsessed with this other girl!. please help and give any advice that you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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well just try to call your friends over the summer to hang out!.!.no biggie there!.!.!.and as for going to highschool, it can be scarey but even if u dont have classes with your friends just think about all the new friends you can make!. Everyone goes through these thoughts before starting highschool!. As for the boy!.!.!.well guys come and go especially at your age and of course it is upsetting but just move on and you will find someone better then him who will want to be with you!. Dont stress on the little things in life!. You're young go have fun!.

ohh and these little things and what you're feeling is not going to make you depressed!.!.theres a difference between being sad and nervous and then being depressed!.!.!.!.Once you start school and find a new guy you will feel ALOT better!. life goes on from these little thingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are not clinically depressed; it's true you have some concerns which bother you--perhaps greatly, but they don't qualify as the source of a bonafide depression--yet!. Depression involves a long-term feeling of despair!. Your "depression" is situational (it is attributable to your situation--that is to say, not seeing your friends; it is not the result of a bio-chemical imbalance in your brain), and it probably isn't going to be long-term enough to warrant the diagnosis of depression!.

It is more accurate to say that you are suffering from the blues!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh my gosh!.
Don't even worry about it!!!
Summer's the best!. No school!.
Just invite them all over and have a party or something!.
When high school comes, celebrate! You'll have more chances to be with your friends and to make many many more!.

As for the guy, forget him!. There's going to be high school next year filled with tons more guys! Besides, if he doesn't like you!.!.!.That's his problem!.

Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg itz like your my twin
i have the same exact problemm
i cry alot then the next day i feel alot better
loook really sexi the next time you see him
be like his best friend
worked for me!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey, i'm the same age as you and i'm starting high school this fall too!. i know what you're going through because i know what it's like to like someone so much but they don't like you back!.!. i know exactly how it feels!. i'm nervous too about starting high school and probably not being in classes with my friends and having less time to spend with them because there's gonna be so much more homework!.

i just try to call my friends and get together with them as much as possible and try to enjoy life!.
and about they boy, don't make yourself suffer!. just try to talk to other guys and try to get close to them!. if you really like this guy then try to talk to him!. (what's meant to be will always find it's way)

if you wanna talk more then e-mail meWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your "really big crush" will wind up being only one of many in your life!. You will make many more friends and high school will open up a whole new world!. Join a club or play a sport and you'll meet lots of new and interesting people!.
I think at 13 most kids get depressed!. I know I did!. There's just too much going on with school and parents and of course those "crushes"!. Just be yourself and go with the flow!. You'll see what I mean in 5 or 6 years when the right guy comes along!. Until then just enjoy the ride!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dont get upset that you won't be with ur friends look at it as room to meet more friends!. And as for the guy in highschool there will be plenty of guys dont get too hung up over one guy your young too young to be pressed over one guy anyways!. If he don't notice you thats his bad but to comment on prior advice your only thirteen so sexy should not be your angel!. If a guy cant like you cause your cool, and smart then hes stupid!. But dont go all slutty!. then thats all you'll be looked at as SEX plastered on your forhead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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