Is submission/domination sex harmful?!


Question: Is submission/domination sex harmful!?
I have a friend with a submission fetish!. She likes being dominated and controlled and insulted and god knows what else!.

I know it's not really any of my business but I don't like it!. She has self esteem issues, and this can't be helping!.

How harmful is this to her!? Should I tell her how I feel or just keep it to myself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
there are a couple different ways to look at it- first of all- it is not dangerous if the people involved are safe and follow the "rules" of the scene!. truly- being submissive does not mean someone has low self esteem- it is empowering to relinquish control over your body and even your mind in a scene!. Don't get me wrong- some people w/ low self esteem submit b/c of a different reason - but honestly I don't get that!. It really is empowering for the sub to give the control to the dom and it has a lot of trust and faith in the other person when done correctly!. As far as safety- a good knowledge of proper rope knots and other binding methods is important!. knowledge of the "rules", what is and is not allowed, and having a safe word (or words) and being okay with using it without being quesitoned- a lot of these things are key to a good safe scene- not everyone follows them though- if you are worried just let her know, she obviously trusted you enough to let you in on something so intimate- she should be prepared for your reaction!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If she's your friend, then you should express your concern for her no matter what the issue!. I think it would be perfectly appropriate to tell her that you're concerned with the way she expresses her feelings about herself, and that you worry her sexual practices may be hurting it!.

Submission and domination in sex ALONE are not harmful; they come in varying degrees and many people enjoy it!. On a small level we are all dominant and submissive!. I wouldn't be surprised if your friend is just really turned on by someone roughing her up a bit!. Not uncommon at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

People get so twisted about sex!. People mimic their early realationships!.!.!.!.!.hence the reason why people!.!.!.!.!.use "who your daddy" and spanking and crap!. It is also because!.!.!.!.most Americans are raised with some twisted idea that sex is dirty or shame full!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.hence the crap "your nasty!.!.!.!.lets get nasty!.!.!.!.!.and all that crap!. Yeah I would agree that it is low self esteem!.!.!.!.!.then again!.!.!.!.!.we can't forget that we are also animals!.!.!.!.!.chuncks of our ancient parts of our brains!.!.!.!.!.drive sex, eating, heart rate, etc!. In nature the females are often dominated and it has various meanings and survival adaptations!.!.!.!.!.over time!. With that said !.!.!.!.sexual behavior is so important that it is often used to measure health and mental health!. You can't say anything to her directly about it but you can have a conversation about it in general!.!.!.!.!.!.that is how she is!.!.!.!.maybe she doesn't need to change it!. I don't think it could be making her self esteem worse unless she feels guilty about it or the guys are using her and that is hurting her feelings!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.sex is for the most part good for the self esteem and healthWww@Answer-Health@Com

I believe that it is harmful!. I



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