Okay, help me out here.......why do I hate her?!
Question: Okay, help me out here!.!.!.!.!.!.!.why do I hate her!?
Long story short- My sis-in-law (husband's bro's wife) early 20's very well endowed up top but not model hot or anything!.!.!.!.!.she & my husb get along too good, I call it flirting!. She & I hung out a while, but mostly she only contacts me if she wants something!. Most of the time she'll talk 2 him if she calls the house!. She doesn't work, goes to school p-t, my husband & I switch shifts so kids don't have to day care, so we NEVER see each other!. Well, she drops me an email tonight, as soon as I saw it I thought, Oh what does she need now!?, well, she was asking me if I can babysit (her word) my kids while my husband plays on a coed softball team for 4 Saturdays!. It's mostly couples, but I guess there are too many girls, so she needs guys, like who the hell cares anyway!? She's just so f'ing annoying!. What is your take!? Why do I hate her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, crap!. I don't like her either!. She asked if YOU could babysit your OWN kids!!?! While she and YOUR husband go play ball!? NO way!. I can totally see why you hate her!. You are not threatened by her, but what woman wants any other woman, no matter who she is, taking up your soul mates time, thoughts, etc!.!.!.No!. Say something to your honey about it!. That is wrong!. He needs to know it bothers you!. Good luck sweetie!. (Whip her a$$!!!)
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Don't baby sit her kids you have enough to do organizing your own lifestyle which you seem to be managing admirably, I would translate this request as being the answer to the question!. "How can I get him away on his own, and at the same time reduce the risk of being found out"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What is it to her!? She should just mind her own business!. But seriously for your sake, you two need to spend time together!. Either hire a babysitter, or agree with another couple to watch each other's kids, but if you continue like this, it's very bad for a relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so normal, i to would feel the same!. you know what, put a stop to it right now!!!!!, she wants your man, and no shes not tryin to be friendly, she wants your man, and if you let them, they well have a sexual affair behind your back, that is if they yet havent!. believe me, i know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your guy how you feel, and tell him she makes you uncomfortable!. It's unfair for you to be put in a stressful situation like that!. Just talk to him about it and see if the two of you can minimize the time spent with the sis-in-law!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She asked you yo babysit your own kids!?! WTF!.
That is why you hate her!. Plus she sounds like the type of female that gives cool females a bad rep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is why you hate her!. Plus she sounds like the type of female that gives cool females a bad rep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to ur hubby with it!. if foo gets offensive then its a sign of some bull$hitWww@Answer-Health@Com
because shes annoying!.!.!.stay away from herWww@Answer-Health@Com
THAT WAS SOOOOO CONFUSING!!
PROLLY BC U THINK SHE IS A 5LUT!?
OR BC U THINK DHE IS ATTRACTED TO UR MAN!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
PROLLY BC U THINK SHE IS A 5LUT!?
OR BC U THINK DHE IS ATTRACTED TO UR MAN!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i can understand why you feel this way
i mean your hubby and her on a team as a couple!.!.nah!! but i can also understand that she may get on better with him as i have friends of my boyfriends and they are nice!.!.she is a bit stand offish with me and i click with her husband because he is so down to earth and nice!.!.!.im not at all attracted to his looks(not so handsome) but he just a nice guy and i enjoy having a chat with him!.!.when i do!.!.it looks like his wife is giving us the look !.!.like !.!.you know!.!.but its so innocent!.!.i love my boyfriend!.!.but i also get on well with his mate!.!.!.so!.!.it is a bit tricky!.!.follow your gut on this!.!.if you feel there is more to her than pure friendship with your hubby!.!.!.then you do what you have to doWww@Answer-Health@Com
i mean your hubby and her on a team as a couple!.!.nah!! but i can also understand that she may get on better with him as i have friends of my boyfriends and they are nice!.!.she is a bit stand offish with me and i click with her husband because he is so down to earth and nice!.!.!.im not at all attracted to his looks(not so handsome) but he just a nice guy and i enjoy having a chat with him!.!.when i do!.!.it looks like his wife is giving us the look !.!.like !.!.you know!.!.but its so innocent!.!.i love my boyfriend!.!.but i also get on well with his mate!.!.!.so!.!.it is a bit tricky!.!.follow your gut on this!.!.if you feel there is more to her than pure friendship with your hubby!.!.!.then you do what you have to doWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have seen this so much!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.just remeber she is jealous of you ,alone, and confused!. Even though what we do on the outside defines us then what we do on the inside !.!.!.!.she does not follow this!. Dont fight back , she wants you too, she wants you to get angery!. Just take a deep breath and think that you are way more privilged then her and!.!.!.!.feel sorry for her, It helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You MIGHT be overreacting, but I doubt it!. You seem to be having an "intuition feeling!."
I think you believe either they are cheating, or will be soon!. And you want it stopped!. Which is very natural to want it stopped!.
And instinct and intuition on something like this is usually right!.
Even if your husband isn't cheating (and there is still a good chance he isn't), he is acting in bad form!. He is appearing to both you and his own brother to be "messing" with his brother's wife!.
Most likely it would be a good idea to get marital counseling; but I seriously doubt you are overreacting!. This should be stopped before it goes too far!. Your husband needs to stop this for his own good and for the good of his family; he needs to cut off contact with his brother's wife immediately!.
A marriage counselor would be in a good position to make this known to him!. At the very least, a close friend or even his brother (the husband of the sister-in-law in question)!.
But be careful about making the brother the one to do it!. It might make your husband defensive, and it might even lead to a fight if it sounds too accusatory!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you believe either they are cheating, or will be soon!. And you want it stopped!. Which is very natural to want it stopped!.
And instinct and intuition on something like this is usually right!.
Even if your husband isn't cheating (and there is still a good chance he isn't), he is acting in bad form!. He is appearing to both you and his own brother to be "messing" with his brother's wife!.
Most likely it would be a good idea to get marital counseling; but I seriously doubt you are overreacting!. This should be stopped before it goes too far!. Your husband needs to stop this for his own good and for the good of his family; he needs to cut off contact with his brother's wife immediately!.
A marriage counselor would be in a good position to make this known to him!. At the very least, a close friend or even his brother (the husband of the sister-in-law in question)!.
But be careful about making the brother the one to do it!. It might make your husband defensive, and it might even lead to a fight if it sounds too accusatory!.Www@Answer-Health@Com