I do stuff to ruin my life out of boredom?!


Question: I do stuff to ruin my life out of boredom!?
when stuff has been going well for me for a while i do something small and easy to ruin it, half- on purpose!. impulsive kind of stuff that's mechanically simple but has a big effect!. its like i like seeing how low i can sink!. i think i also do some of the stuff to see my parrents get angry!. it entertains me how they get so emotional!. (on the same note it's never bothered me to watch my parrents fight i always enjoyed it but theres people all like "i hate seeing my parrents fight" so i'm thinking mabe somethings wrong!.) so is this a disorder or something!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I do the same thing, you're not alone!. I have Borderline Personality Disorder!. Perhaps you can look into that more, see if it describes you, and ask your doctor!.

I sometimes get my parents angry so they yell at me to the point I break down and cry - that's the only way I can experience emotion!.!.!.at all!.

Don't listen to these other people who say "stop it"!. It just doesn't work like that! Half the time it's impulsive (that means you can't just stop)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are being really silly!. Your parents obviously love and care for you, that is why they get angry and fight, they want you to be safe and happy!. So why do you deliberately make them upset!?

Why don't you try talking to your parents directly about this or if that is not an option, try a counsellor or trustworthy friend!. This is a serious problem and people could really get hurt!. It needs to be dealt with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry, just continue doing your thing!. Everything's fine and dandy!. If bad circumstances can make you happy, imagine how much happier you'll be in good circumstances!. Anyway, since life is about being happy, I think you got it made!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are being apathetic and stupid

STOP IT!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's common!. Being careful not to judge or diagnose you it seems you get off the bus when you're almost there!.!.!.!. so!.!.!. maybe you knew all the time you didn't like where you were going!.!.!. right!? Right!.
So, to answer your question!.!.!. if you notice your behavior having an impact on your quality of life by all means tell me what your Doctor has to say!.!.!.!.!.
You really should have a chat with your Family Doctor if it's come to asking here at Yahoo!.!.!. Answers!.!.don't you think!? I do!. Just to be on the safe side!. You might be suffering from who knows what and furthermore there might be a cure!.

My suggestion from what I can gather about the little that's known about you is the ol' Goal!.

Get a goal!.!.!. One you wouldn't believe it somebody walked up and gave it to you right now!. Not washing the dishes before bed or graduating!.!.!. I mean a goal!.!.!.!. A Dream Come True!.
Set it to come true in about ten years from now and make it big!. The bigger the better!. The sky is the limit!.!.!. and that goes on forever right right right!?

It comes true!. It always comes true!.
At first it's just little things that could be coincidence like you might well say but in no time things start to happen that could only be your dream come true!.
You'll meet powerful and influencial people, you'll gain access to resources you never would have dreamed possible it'll seem the Universe has conspired to make your dream come true!.!.!. and the list goes on and on!.!.!.!.
In no time you'll have something to look forward to and at the right time!.!.!. and it's not as easy as a silver spoon!.
Everything falls into place!.

Without it you're just another ship on the water with no rudder going nowhere in a hurry right!?
Sorry
Yours trulyWww@Answer-Health@Com

DO NOT LISTEN TO THE DUMBASSES ABOVE!

If you are just a retarded teeny bopper then yeah, you might just be stupid and need to just "Stop" as they have all helpfully told you!.!.!. But if it is getting out of control then YES, it is attatched to a mental condition!.

Damn!.!.!. I can't remember what it is called when you do your best to introduce chaos into your life!.!.!. Listen to LoveLine and you will see your situation repeated over and over and over by half of the freaking callers every night!

It sounds, to me, like Borderline Personality Disorder!.!.!.
http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Borderline_!.!.!.

It is a COMMON THING that usually centers around people that have either a mental quirk that needs to be MEDICALLY TREATED or it happens when a person has been abused as a child and are constantly looking to bring drama and chaos into their lives!.

The detachment to the emotions makes me think it might be BPD as well!.!.!.

If this is really hurting your life, please seek out medical attention!.


THIS ISN'T JUST SOMETHING TO SAY "Think Happy Thoughts and Stop It"!.

This can be a real problem!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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