After 9 years, is it even love anymore??? What has this turned into???!
Question: After 9 years, is it even love anymore!?!?!? What has this turned into!?!?!?
I've been heavily involved with my boyfriend for 9 years now!. I've known him and had a huge crush on him since I was 13!. I gave him my virginity at almost 15 and moved away!. 6 years later, I moved back home-and there were fireworks in our eyes!. We haven't been apart since!. In the beginning we only smoked pot together and he drank beer religiously!. I couldn't stand the beer drinking and eventually was successful at putting a stop to it!. As the years began to pass and times changed, our drug habits changed too!. Joined with the pot smoking was the occassional line!. Line after line, the pot became meaningless because we were developing a serious cocaine habit!. In what seems like no time flat, coke was coupled with black tar heroine(smoked, never shot)!. The cocaine was then replaced with freebase (home made crack)and the heroine became an unstoppable monster!. Needless to say, our lives fell apart!. We lost our jobs, began to live like trash, and basically were only out for ourselves!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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My husband and I met in AA about 5 years ago!. We were sober at first and then we relapsed on black tar (also smoked it) and coke and crack!. They were the darkest, worst years of my life!. Anyone who gets sucked into drugs and alcohol and can't get out, is in danger of losing their very life and soul!. I would recommend, only if YOU want it, to end this relationship (temporarily), check yourself into rehab!. or get some sort of counseling and go to AA or NA meetings!.
Are you still using!? If you want to stop please email me and I can help you:-) God Bless and take care of the most important person in your life-YOU! You matter!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you still using!? If you want to stop please email me and I can help you:-) God Bless and take care of the most important person in your life-YOU! You matter!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, it isn't love anymore!. And I wonder if it ever really was!.!.!.
I highly suggest you seek some drug counseling to help you overcome your addictions!. Also, even though it will be difficult, it would be best if you separate form him!. You will probably always associate him with the feelings of being high!. Thus, he is so entangled with your addiction that he is most certainly a "trigger" for you!.
I wish you all the best, and will pray for you!.
God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I highly suggest you seek some drug counseling to help you overcome your addictions!. Also, even though it will be difficult, it would be best if you separate form him!. You will probably always associate him with the feelings of being high!. Thus, he is so entangled with your addiction that he is most certainly a "trigger" for you!.
I wish you all the best, and will pray for you!.
God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well this is your first step in stopping and seeing it for it is !.!. writing it down helps put it into perspective!.i also think that you dont like yourself and are ready for that new you to surface!.!.there for ready to take the plunge and stop using!. it is just a matter of making a plan!.!.a goal to where you would like to going and sticking to it !.!.though i imagine it would be hard sometimes we are stronger than what we think!.believe in yourself and allow yourself to time to get through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Past is always similar to a dream, relative to now!.
When you wake up, dreams don't continue !.!.!. nightmares are over !.!.!.
Look at it in this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you wake up, dreams don't continue !.!.!. nightmares are over !.!.!.
Look at it in this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Solution is forget about being a couple, you have to walk away, nothing salvagable there!.
Step 2 is take the free download:
www!.fhu!.com
In upper left corner of site is
Be Still and Know!.
Do it!. And discover a whole new life!. Start over like the Phoenix rising from the ashes!.
You can do it!. It will feel like death but it's not you that's dieing, it's a foreign installation which has taken you over, mostly!. You can be free!. To discover your True Self, the real you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Step 2 is take the free download:
www!.fhu!.com
In upper left corner of site is
Be Still and Know!.
Do it!. And discover a whole new life!. Start over like the Phoenix rising from the ashes!.
You can do it!. It will feel like death but it's not you that's dieing, it's a foreign installation which has taken you over, mostly!. You can be free!. To discover your True Self, the real you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is a third woman here, named drugs!.!.!.!.that has destroyed your relationship!.!.!.if you both could get clean, and still stay together, then I would call it love!.!.!.it is so sad, to read about this story!.!.!.if you both could turn to God and Jesus to pull you both out of this hell you are both living in, there might be a light at the end of the tunnel!.!.!.if you can both go to this together, and come out on top!.!.!.then will you know if this is really love,!.>!.I am so sorry, that your lives went this way!.!.!.it could've been love,!.!.!.but satan made sure he got in the middle and destroyed it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have to want to get off of drugs!. if he does not want to get off of drugs, you need to leave him and take care of yourself!. if he does want to get clean, you both need to move, to make new friends, to never seek out anyone who does drugs!. change your life, where you go for entertainment, what you do for leisure time!.
you can get clean and change your life, but not while you are surrounded by others who are still involved in this type of life!.
I had a girl who worked for me and she got hooked on meth at 13 and started to sleep with men for a fix!. She was into meth for two years and finally got busted and sent to a farm to rehab!. Even now, she can't stand to hear aluminum foil crincked!. Or smell drano!. She had to stop seeing all of her friends who did drugs and basically, she turned her life around!. She is 24 now and she makes over 100K, has a fiance and is very happy!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can get clean and change your life, but not while you are surrounded by others who are still involved in this type of life!.
I had a girl who worked for me and she got hooked on meth at 13 and started to sleep with men for a fix!. She was into meth for two years and finally got busted and sent to a farm to rehab!. Even now, she can't stand to hear aluminum foil crincked!. Or smell drano!. She had to stop seeing all of her friends who did drugs and basically, she turned her life around!. She is 24 now and she makes over 100K, has a fiance and is very happy!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
have you got your addiction sorted out!?been to rehab etc!?if not you MUST!!also you must get away from this guy,however much it hurts to do so,you are both on a deadly spiral!!and addiction based relationships can never work,sorry to be harsh but there it is!,get yourself clean!move away from temptation,because personally i dont see any future for you both,you are still young and im sure you dont want to end up dead/seriously ill/living like a bum etc,get tough(with YOURSELF),address your addiction issues and get a life for yourself,theres NO FUTURE with this guy,you gotta be ready to get clean and do it for YOURSELF! good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com