I see myself thought other people's thoughts on me, help?!


Question: I see myself thought other people's thoughts on me, help!?
I've always had a low self-esteem becasue I'm ugly!. It made me so insecure about myself for a very long time that I become so obsessed about how other people see me and think about me!. I even designed my whole life and goals based on this!.
what should I do!?help :(
I want to feel happy before leaving this earth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I think you would benefit greatly from therapy, but it's not always feasible (it can be very expensive)!. You should stop worrying about what people think, but do make yourself feel attractive to YOU!. Maybe buy a new outfit, get a new haircut, etc!. Enhance your best features, but try to accept what you cannot change!. Spend time with your family and friends, and stop worrying about how others see you!. Keep yourself busy, and try not to be alone too much!. When you create a life that is full and meaningful, it will make no difference what anyone else thinks!.

PS I bet you're not ugly at all!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The beauty you are in search of is only what is called skin deep
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The smile is a welcome mat at a the eyes window to your soul
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Look in the mirror at your self and see the person then make a real big smile the kind that will almost make you laugh at your self
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There you have just seen the person that only a few can see
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The real you the one you don't even know all that well why
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Because you have only wanted to see the face
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thats sad, I think I have been that way all my life too!. really we should not think that way!. just be yourself and love yourself!. dont hurt peoples feelings and go about your life!. your fine and I am fine!. I am not ugly I have always been very pretty but never felt pretty!. it is all about how you feel inside!. I look now at my pics from years ago and I was so hot to look at and always was told that but never believed it!. to this day I dont really!. but I am nice to people and they like me for that!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey you!
There's a website that I truely think will help:
www!.livinglifetothefull!.com
It's a site based on cognitive therapy which helps us to olook at our thought patterns and change them to more positive ones by challenging the negative ones!.
Give it a go!
good luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com

No one is ugly!. Start a makeover plan!. Get a good haircut at a nice salon!. Buy some fashionable clothes at a better dept store!. Ask a saleman to help you!. Keep yourself clean and well groomed at all times!. You will feel better about yourself and others will notice you, too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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